Spirit Feast - (New Thought) Practical Spirituality - Richard Kent Matthews

Feeling Sorry For Yourself: The Number One Block To, Well, Everything!

2012-01-29T22:56:00.000-08:00

So, how are you feeling about yourself, life, suffering?

Wasted complaining, wasted blaming, denial, and a sense of victimhood serve only to keep you from experiencing the joy and happiness you claim you want. But get this: the more difficult it is to let go of these things, the more probable it is that they are serving you in some unconscious, perhaps masochistic, way.

Do you want to know how to really attract into your life what you want? Here it is: Dare something worthy. Get out of your small self and into the world. It’s not doubt that keeps the prosperity and abundance away; it’s self-pity. And when the self-pity begins to recede, you will notice abundance around you that has been there the whole time.

Your life is blessed. Now share it with the world.

“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.”

Helen Keller

Spiritually Speaking, Which Great Teachers Influence You The Most? A List To Help You...

2012-01-29T13:54:00.000-08:00

I came across this interesting list and thought I'd share it with you. See if your favorite spiritual teacher is on it. If not, connect with the site owners and let them know. In the mean time, I like most of them and reading their works or watching their videos couldn't hurt!! Especially today, when everything seems all topsy turvy. You don't think so? Then you haven't been watching the US Republican presidential campaign.

Does the world scare you? Not me. I know that ultimately, all is well regardless of appearances. And these great teachers can help you change your mind about that fear. Enjoy.

http://www.watkinsbooks.com/review/watkins-spiritual-100-list

By the way, they also include a Top Ten List at the site. See if you agree with their choices.

(P.S. I know he's not considered a spiritual teacher, but Larry Winget (technically a business guru) is among my favorites. He says it like he thinks it is, and makes more sense than some of the woo woo that passes for spiritual guidance. Check him out. I've linked his name to his site for your convenience.)

The Spiritual Atheist: An Intelligent Universe without a God of Religion

2012-01-25T09:06:00.000-08:00

I am a spiritual atheist,* which simply means that I do not believe in any kind of deity per se, but I do accept the universe as deliberate. That's where I end the comparison to any kind of religion. From that point forward, I turn to science.

Atheists have been accused of being angry 'disbelievers.' But that is a great misnomer. Atheists are acutely aware that we must create a deep sense of morality, since we cannot depend upon "Revealed Word" of "Inerrant Heavenly Law" to guide us on this journey.

Atheists are among the most moral, caring, giving, and freedom loving people on the planet. We are also aware that many people loathe the idea that we can create a true sense of interconnection without some kind of outside deity, or even an inner deity for that matter. And we can and do love deeply.

Most atheists favor pro-choice, gay rights, racial equality, financial and opportunity equity, and of course, freedom of and from religion. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.

The universe is our oyster.

*Click to find more info on this subject....

Can You Control The Universe? More Than You Might Know!

2012-01-21T11:10:00.000-08:00

How do we explain love, especially Divine Love, in contrast to pain and suffering, death and violence, not only among humans, but also animals, plants, planetary bodies, colliding galaxies, supernovas and the continuous path called entropy, or the disintegration of all that is?

No matter the object, be it rock or flesh, or its direction, ultimately it all heads for destruction. It appears to be the natural way of things. Can we understand love in a way different from sweetness and light, or would that somehow be blasphemy?

Most of us who believe in some sort of God 'out there' actually think He/She will stick Its Divine Finger into the natural mix in order to suspend the laws of physics simply to put a little more money in the bank account, stop the spread of a cancerous tumor, or keep a child from breaking his neck on the football field.

Not likely.

But there is a way for you to control YOUR universe if not THE universe.

First, recognize your frailty. You are part of the creation, and are heading toward annihilation as certain as the rose in your garden or the moon in the sky on an August night.

Second, you have been given a finite amount of time to create and express your personal moment on this planet.

Third, you will be as good at creating your experience as your thoughts allow.

Fourth, your thoughts will ALWAYS determine the level of joy or anguish that you experience in any moment of your day.

Fifth, you can change your thinking if you want to do so, and you can also remain in your current patterns of thinking which are creating your current experience of the world.

Sixth, you can make one simple but major decision that will change your life forever, and this is the greatest and most powerful 'secret' you'll ever learn...

Eliminate all self-pity.*

Do that, and whatever amount of time you have on this planet, in this form, as a part of this universe will be heaven as you've never known it.

Guaranteed.

*(A spiritual disclaimer: Eliminating self-pity will, without doubt, be the toughest challenge you will ever accept into your life. Tis best to know that now, here, at the outset. And it also brings the most treasure. But you won't know until you move into and through it. Take the risk. It's worth it.)

Abracadabra! (New Podcast)

2012-01-20T16:32:00.001-08:00

You've heard the word many times. Now, you can make real magic. Listen and be amazed...

http://richardspeaks.podbean.com/2012/01/20/abracadabra-the-secret-way-to-manifesting-miraclesnow/

Is Your God a Happy God?

2012-01-13T08:55:00.000-08:00

You'll hear it everywhere: God is all powerful, all knowing, everywhere present. Sounds good, right? I would suppose that means God is alway upbeat, loving, and, well, happy. Wouldn't you be if you were literally everything? You'd never make a mistake, always get what you want, never be sad or droopy or weary. Unless you're the god of the Bible.

At first it appears all's well:

"And God saw everything that he had made, and behold it was very good." Gen. 1:31

But things change:

"And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart." Gen. 6:6

In only five chapters, God goes from happy to quite sad. Why?

Because of you! That's right. Humans have the power (according to these passages) to take God from glad to sad almost instantly.

It's quite clear that this is a story, not literal history, but if you believe the Bible is the literal Word of God, then this has to set off an alarm bell or two. You'll have to agree that this god is moody, emotional, and a bit inconsistent. Worse, further on in the story, he gets so angry at his own creation that he condemns them to an eternity in hell if they don't straighten up and fly right, which means, in essence, "Obey me or else, weaklings!"

So, rationally speaking, why would the author(s) of Genesis portray God in such a way? I'm not certain but my guess would be that the god of Genesis is created in MAN'S image rather than the other way around. I could be wrong, but the text appears to speak for itself.

My suggestion is to let the Bible be a great source of inspiration if you must. But don't be trapped into believing that a man-made creation, full of different authors, different time frames, and different agendas is the literal, unalterable, final and infinite word of the Source of the universe.

If you want to know if your God is happy, look within. That's where the real Spirit resides. And in that recognition, joy increases, love increases, and the world becomes a grand and glorious place.

Now, that's a happy god!

Getting Really Healthy: Debunking the Myths of Becoming Vegetarian

2012-01-10T08:44:00.001-08:00

Are you being fooled by the pill makers?

As a vegetarian, I am always interested in nutritional research. One of the more invigorating controversies around the subject is the issue of a possible B-12 deficiency in those who eat no animal products. So, here is a nice little site with a lot of great info that will enlighten and even stimulate your senses.

http://libaware.economads.com/b12issue.php

From the site:

The pill pushers are quick to say that our soil is deficient, but according to [researchers]..., if a seed does not receive the elements it needs IT WILL NOT GROW (OR WILL GROW POORLY - author). Also, plants obtain nutrients from other sources in greater amounts: the sun, water and the air. Plants actually obtain only about 1% of nutrients from the soil.

It's your body, your life. Stay informed.

Blessings.

The Spirit of God is Upon Me....

2012-01-07T10:50:00.001-08:00

A little New Thought soul music...

The Bible and Its Contradictions: Supporting--and Challenging--the Prosperity Gospel

2012-01-07T10:14:00.000-08:00

Can the Bible make you rich? Some seem to think so...

You may have heard about it. It's called The Prosperity Gospel. And it has caused quite a controversy within traditional Christian ranks. One of its greatest evangelical proponents is Joel Osteen, pastor of the mega Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas. His sermons appear to come directly from the Bible but his detractors insist that he's misinterpreting the Scriptures at best and misleading his flock at worst.

So, with that in mind, does the Bible in fact support the so-called Prosperity Gospel? Let's see...

Mark 10: 29, 30: "There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands for my sake and gospel's, but he shall receive an hundred fold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children and lands." In other words, follow Jesus and your wealth will be increased a hundred times over. Sounds good. Real good.

Psalms 37:25: "I have been young, and now am old; yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken nor his seed begging bread." Again, the followers of God shall never be wanting.

Psalms 112: 1, 3: "Blessed is the man that feareth the Lord...Wealth and riches shall be in his house." That's what we're looking for, right? A god who doles out a lot of goodies to those who serve him.

Job 22: 23, 24: "Then thou shalt lay up gold as dust." And with the price of gold on the rise, who would turn this down?

On the other hand...

Luke 6:20: "Blessed be ye poor." Say what?

Matt. 6: 19, 21: "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth... For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also." Come again?

Matt. 19:24: "It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God." Tough stuff.

There you have it. All laid out for you to contemplate and embrace. Or is it?

It appears there are some slight(?) contradictions in this Prosperity Gospel thing. If we are admonished by ministers and Bible teachers to take the Bible literally, on face value, and never question its authority, then surely there must be some explanation for this apparent anomaly. (I use the word 'anomaly' loosely here because this particular set of references is just the beginning of woes when it comes to wealth and the Bible. I will present much more as this series continues.)

And to you more progressive types, I offer a gentle warning: No fair pulling passages out of context just support to your own philosophical approach.

I, for one, am rather fond of The Prosperity Gospel, but in the final analysis, there is only one possible explanation: The Bible is a human construct, put together by committee in the 4th century, and therefore is prone to mistake and contradiction. I'll just have to make up my own mind about it. You, too?

Unfortunately, too many of us have turned the Bible into an idol. Which, if I'm not mistaken, is one of the very issues we are warned about in this book we have so idolized.

(If you can come up with a valid and rational interpretation of these contradictory passages of Scripture, I have a comment section at the bottom of this post.)

The Red Tide: What Conservatives Really Want for America

2012-01-05T08:42:00.000-08:00

Argue if you will, but it's clear. The American ultra-conservative movement is angry. The main reason? Too much freedom in the US. Oh, they scream that they want Big Government out of our lives but are the first to deny personal choice. When it comes to the bedrooms and bathrooms of America, the conservatives want to be there for every action.

A large portion of conservatives in the US have made it clear that they prefer, and will implement, an early 19th century politic. Remember, it was the Southern Christian Right plantation owners that fought the hardest to maintain slavery in this country. That's only 150 years ago. They have not changed.

Each of us is still (somewhat) free to choose our own politics. But we must always remember that our politics should not be shoved down the throats of everyone else.

So, keep your religion, your politics, your small mind out of my bedroom, my bathroom, my kitchen, my love life, my wallet.

I will do the same for you.

Your Planetary Footprint: Are You Helping or Hindering?

2011-12-30T20:26:00.000-08:00

I'm vegetarian, nearly vegan. And before 2012 is over, I intend to be completely vegan. Lots of reasons, but those aren't important here.

I have a wonderful idea for you, here at the dawn of the new year. I would appreciate it if you would educate yourself about factory farms. I could tell you how cruel they are, how they help create new forms of virus and bacteria, resistant to antibiotics and growing in intensity every year. But I would rather you research it for yourself.

Why I am suggesting this to you? Well, if you read this blog on any kind of regular basis, you know that its main thrust is to help you become your best so you can share your best with the world. And one way to become your best is to find out where you may not be doing your best. And then, you can do your best, which means you have more to share with the world. Clear?

With that in mind, here is a great link about factory farming that can help you get started in a new direction in 2012. I know you want to do the best for your home, Mother Earth, so begin here and see where it takes you. No judgments on my part. I'm only making the suggestion. And only because I know that deep down, you are a compassionate person.

http://www.stopfactoryfarms.org/

See what you think. Maybe this will be the start of something truly important for you. Only you can decide that.

If you wouldn't mind, I'd love to hear from you about it.

Listen to This!! Good Stuff...

2011-12-29T16:27:00.000-08:00

Hi...

I'm reviewing the attached album (on mp3) and if you can open and play this, would you be willing to listen to a couple of the songs and let me know what you think? Nothing too involved; just an up or down vote.

http://cdn.topspin.net/api/v3/player/120333

The guys are trying to get off the ground and I said I would help if I could.

Thanks either way.

Blessings...

Opening to Spirit: The Real and Honest Aim of This Blog

2011-12-27T08:49:00.000-08:00

First, some great New Thought-oriented music...

Each year, I like to remind my readers and myself why I actually spend so much time on this effort. So, if you haven't been informed yet, you are now.

The Aim of This Blog

What New Thought seeks to accomplish:

To provide a place of spiritual nourishment for the independent seeker.

To help those who are struggling with old, scary traditional religious pasts to come to terms with them.

To teach New Thought principles:

There is One Power, One Presence, One Life, creator and sustainer of All That Is.

That Life is our Life now.

There is no separation; everything is interconnected.

All is perfect in its seeming imperfection.

There is no eternal punishment or reward. Consciousness itself is eternal.

Life is good right here, right now. It’s a matter of how we choose to experience it.

You can create your own miracles. They are not supernatural.

You can create the life you want as long as you are willing to take full responsibility for your creations.

The practice of compassion is our number one goal. “Do the least harm and the most good.”

Giving and receiving is one principle. Everything returns to you in full measure.

Each person is free to choose his/her own path as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else.

Love is the Only Reality.

"Become your best. Share your best!"

Happy New Year!

The Two Faces of Christ

2011-12-25T09:13:00.000-08:00

This 6th Century image of Jesus, from the Eastern tradition, has a remarkable quality. Cover the right half of the face and you'll see a benevolent, kind Jesus. Cover the left half and you have a stern, almost angry Jesus. Perhaps more than one artist was involved in its creation.

Interesting thing about this and all early images of Jesus. They reflect the ethnic and cultural bias of the artist or group of artists doing the work. Most of these paintings were commissioned by Higher Ups so the artist(s) was probably restricted from just going hog wild and using his/her imagination. (Yes, there were female artists, but they mostly used male pseudonyms.) I suppose it had to be that way since, prior to this image above, no consistent images existed. And there is no description of the physical Jesus in Scripture. We can assume, though, that if this man actually existed, he would have been short, dark, bearded, dirty, and strong. Oh, and most assuredly determined.

Jesus is a man for all seasons, then. He appears to each of us in a different and quite personal way. So, no matter how you view him, no matter how you do or do not celebrate his birthday at this time of year, you cannot argue with the fact that, in spite of the images, words, and claims about him, he has made a more profound impression than anyone else in all of history.

A final thought: The Jesus in this painting conveys both sides of human nature. Joy and fear. I feel more connected to it that to those later follies that show Jesus in fine clothes, red hair, and white skin, looking longingly into heaven. This 6th Century Jesus is human, tough, and one of us.

Happy Holidays!

What's The Real Gift of Christmas?

2011-12-24T09:20:00.001-08:00

When I was a kid, I would toss and turn all night before Christmas, hoping to get what I really, really wanted. Most of the time I didn't but once in a while I would. Then, I'd screech and jump and hug.

Three days later, the new thing was in a corner, and I was back out climbing trees.

Finding and having are not the same as wanting. That's why the spiritual journey is best perceived as a continuing adventure, a perpetual seeking. We tend to get bored with the things we ultimately find, even the good things. But hold the carrot out in front, and we will chase it to the end of the rainbow.

Heaven is not the ending but the beginning. The joy is in the chase!

Happy Holidays!!

Your Best New Year's Resolution Ever!

2011-12-24T09:03:00.000-08:00

When all is said and done, much is said, little is done. As we enter a new year, perhaps we can switch that around a little.

A short post to remind us all that walking our talk is the best resolution we can make.

Let honesty, trustworthiness, love, and integrity be your watchwords for 2012. Everyone, especially you, will benefit.

And the world will be a better place for your having been here.

Happy Holidays!

Woof and Purr: The Forgotten Many

2011-12-21T09:09:00.000-08:00

A quick note...

Lots of cats and dogs are locked up in cages all over America (and the world). Many are scheduled to die tomorrow, the next day, and the day after that. As you celebrate this holiday season, please remember the animals that have no one to love them. Donate to your local humane societies and animal rescue centers. And better yet, adopt a new pet.

You can save the life of an innocent animal whose only 'crime' is having been born.

Unconditional love at its best...

If Jesus Had Been Born Today, Would He Be Welcomed In The United States?

2011-12-20T08:22:00.001-08:00

I recently read an interesting blog article that articulates the story of Jesus in a most compelling way, given the shouting down these days of US immigrants by the so-called followers of Christ. Here's an excerpt from the article. Click on the title above or the author's name below to view the lead-in and the redirection to the main body:

"Often, we Christians will call the birth of Jesus a humble one, when in reality it was a humiliating one. Giving birth in a barn is not quaint. It is an affront. Giving birth among the beasts is not, I would imagine, a joyful experience, but a degrading one. Giving birth as a member of an occupied nation, an oppressed people is not exactly what we think of as a history-changing event." David R. Henson (Jesus, Born of an Illegal Immigrant)

I hope you choose to read the entire article. And your comments here would be most appreciated.

Happy Holidays...

Why Jehovah's Witnesses Do Not Celebrate Christmas

2011-12-17T10:44:00.000-08:00

This article is meant to inform and educate...

A lot of people think Jehovah's Witnesses (JWs) are not only crazy, but bound for hell. Too bad. They don't think the same thing about the rest of the world. They believe that when you die, if you are part of the Elect (144,000 as mentioned in the Bible), you will go to heaven. The rest of humanity has the opportunity to be resurrected to an earthly paradise and remain there, as long as one is virtuous. Those who turn away from the JWs' message will simply cease to exist. No eternal soul condemned to an eternal hell. That would violate the loving nature of Jehovah.

Now, JWs do not celebrate most holidays or birthdays. They only celebrate the death and resurrection of Jesus, whom they consider the Savior, distinct from Jehovah, and came to earth to do a job. No Trinity either.

Here's what they say about Christmas:

But why don't Jehovah's Witnesses celebrate Christmas? Jehovah's Witnesses take their worship very seriously and insist upon keeping their worship of God undefiled (James 1:27). So Jehovah's Witnesses do not celebrate Christmas simply because Christmas has pagan origins and associations; Christmas is based upon falsehoods and Christmas also promotes idolary, a practice the Bible condemns. Jehovah's Witnesses do not want to offend God by imitating these celebrations which incorporate so much falsehood and are associated with the most horrible beliefs from the past.

Now you know, if you didn't before. It makes as much sense as any other view of this (pagan) holiday, don't you think?

In the mean time, believe as you choose, enjoy (or not) Christmas in your own way and see you in the new year.

Blessings.

(If for any reason you'd be interested in learning more about this particular sect/cult/religion, the Watchtower Society will be glad to inform and educate you. Here's the site: http://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/15-minute-guide-to-truth.php )

Faith: How to Know If You Have It

2011-12-16T20:35:00.000-08:00

Dancing for joy...

Discovering joy...

St. Paul says that faith is substance and evidence. In other words, it's solid, certain, unquestioned and unquestionable. It's not hope, which is a great big 'maybe.' So, if you say you have faith, you do not doubt. You trust. You never ask again. Right?

Wow. How many of us actually see faith in that light? Most of the time, when we speak of faith, we use it in the manner of hope: We must have faith that all will be well. We must have faith that God/Allah/Jesus/Zeus will answer our pleading prayer. We must have faith that Tim Tebow* will lead our team to victory over that other team, even though they're praying that he won't be able to do such a thing.

Again, wow.

Faith is not like that. Faith is acceptance. I have total faith that the sun will last through the course of my lifetime. I have faith that the oceans will produce mists that will turn to clouds that will bring much needed rain to the parched land. (Living in Oregon, I never have any doubts about that.) And I have faith that I will one day dissolve back into the earth from whence I have sprung and be as recycled as the star dust from giant exploding super novas.

I know that all is as it should be. The universe has my best interests at heart.

Of those things I am certain. It never enters my mind to question them.

Can we have that kind of faith when it comes to our relationship with Spirit? Can we? Most don't. Most hope. But not you. You know that there is never a time when you are separate. There is never a moment when you are alone. You know for certain that what you need is always provided, even without asking. You know all that. And you live from that place of faith all the time.

When you have that kind of faith, that kind of certainty, you never have to pray again. Except for one kind of prayer...

Thank you.

*Denver Broncos quarterback as of this writing, December 2011, known not only for his come-from-behind winning plays but also for his evangelical Christianity. He kneels in prayer after each successful play.

Make a Joyful Noise...

2011-12-13T08:40:00.000-08:00

"I stand in the truth that no matter the appearance, my life is blessed and I am privileged and honored to share it with the world. I walk forward into the day, knowing that all is well."

Are You Better Off Because Rich People Have Created So Many Jobs? Not Necessarily...

2011-12-12T07:33:00.001-08:00

So, What Has President Barak Obama Actually Accomplished So Far? Anything? Take a Look...

2011-12-11T22:17:00.000-08:00

Barak Obama - President of the United States of America

Yesterday afternoon, oh, around five-ish, I was getting myself a light snack. Some nuts and seeds, a cup of English Breakfast tea, and a chocolate mint, to be exact. I sat down, turned on the TV and saw the announcement that at 6 p.m., there would be another of those pesky Republican presidential candidate debates on ABC. "Oh, well, it's Saturday and not much else on." Watched it. Very entertaining. Comedic, almost. And no one came off as being exactly presidential material. I know they're trying, but so far, no good.

The group did, as a whole, do their best to ridicule the current president. I heard a lot of really tacky and untrue stuff coming from their mouths. So, just to balance everything out, I have decided to share again the many accomplishments that Pres. Obama has under his belt so far. And after the mess left by the previous administration, he has done an amazing job. Check out this site, read, learn, and be humbled by how much your president has been serving you:

http://obamaachievements.org/list

When you've looked it over, come back and leave a comment or two, positive or negative. I'd really be interested in your point of view.

In the mean time, have a great week and enjoy the Season.

Science Discovers Super Earth - Will Christians Be Upset?

2011-12-09T14:57:00.000-08:00

There's been the discovery of an earth-like rocky planet orbiting a star around 600 light years from us and appears it may have a lot of water, which is essential to life, at least as we know it.

When I was growing up in the evangelical churches, my Christian friends and leaders would often point out that there was no life anywhere else in the universe, that God in the form of Christ had come here because this is where God's attention was focused. The rest of the Cosmos was window dressing, for all intents and purposes, and beyond our comprehension. In fact, in 1969, many Christians thought that going to the moon was demon-inspired and that America would suffer greatly for the offense. But here we are, on the verge of some of the most amazing discoveries of this or any age.

So, as we get closer to discovering life in other parts of the galaxy, I'm wondering if Christians still think that we are the center of it all, if other planets are bound by the same inflexible religious beliefs of earth's millions of fundamentalists, or if we will ultimately be overrun by nasty, devilish aliens, out to prove that we are the inferior, sinful creature who brought all of the universe under God's condemnation. I'm sure they will let us know in due time.

I no longer follow that particular spiritual path, so I am personally very excited about the possibility of what awaits our prying eyes and brains 'out there' in the vast array of lights, gases, dust, rocks, and whatever else is flying through space at speeds almost incomprehensible. May I live to see the day when we finally meet up with 'the little green men' of Alpha Centauri. I jest, of course, but I really am giddy about the whole thing.

Each day we get closer to the real possibility that we are not alone in this vast universe. We don't know their forms, their ways of living and dealing with their worlds, or even if we can communicate with them. And we especially do not know their truths. We must be ready enough, hence, mature enough, to walk out onto the platform, raise our hands, say, "Hail," and pray they come in peace.

Either way, knowing that I don't know the consequences, I fervently welcome whatever is to come from these discoveries. The universe is my home. It would be nice to meet the neighbors.

Here's an excerpt from the recent post at Science Daily. You can click on the title to link to the whole story:

First Habitable Zone Super-Earth Discovered in Orbit Around Sun-like Star

ScienceDaily (Dec. 5, 2011) — NASA's Kepler Mission has discovered the first super-Earth orbiting in the habitable zone of a star similar to the Sun. A team of researchers, including Carnegie's Alan Boss, has discovered what could be a large, rocky planet with a surface temperature of about 22 degrees Celsius (72 degrees Fahrenheit), comparable to a comfortable spring day on Earth.

Did God Write the New Testament? Or Is It All Made Up?

2011-12-06T08:23:00.000-08:00

Growing up fundamentalist Christian, I was taught to believe that God dictated every word of the Bible, especially the King James Version. He actually spoke to the authors in 'thee' and 'thou' phrases. And if I ever questioned it, I was promptly scolded and reminded that God's wrath was mighty, and I as a sinful human was already dangling over the pit of hell, being supported by a mere thread. God could release me at any moment and would I like that? Would I? So I'd best not be opening my claptrap and asking blasphemous questions. Just shut up and take the preacher's word for it. The Bible was written by God.

Then I turned six.

Later, after ditching Santa, the Easter Bunny, and various other saints, I began a journey of discovery that eventually lead me to the conclusion that the Bible is, for the most part, pure fiction, fantasy, and farce. To back up those claims, I studied many scholars and dissidents. The facts of the Bible's creation gradually came clear to me and now, I see it for what it is--a compilation of unrelated and scattered pieces of document put together over hundreds of years, mostly for the benefit of whomever was doing the construction. No ultimate truth of any kind exists within those 'lofty' pages.

If you don't like that possibility, well, that's OK. A lot of folks don't. But if you have an open mind, a searching heart, and a good brain, curious to know what it is you think you believe, check out this site as a good way to get started on a truly shake-up kind of journey:

http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/richard_carrier/NTcanon.html

When you've perused this site for a while, come back and share with me, with us, what you have discovered and how it has affected your view of Scripture.

Mind you, I still believe in a deliberate universe. It just makes sense to me. What doesn't make sense is some kind of separate, distinct, and wrathful deity, easily upset enough by its own creation to threaten it with total destruction, just to soothe its own ego. The Power that brought the universe into existence is beyond my understanding. But It lives in me as me. I feel it, I accept it. But that's just me.

If none of this interests you, if you have already decided one way or the other, then I wish you well.

Thanks for reading and have a great holiday season!

Occupy Movement: The Clear, Unambiguous Aim and Goal

2011-12-04T11:08:00.000-08:00

I am not against the right to be rich in America. I uphold the tenacity and determination of the individual to make a great life for him/herself. But I also know that the Elite of the U.S. are determined as well. They are determined to take over everything, especially the Congress, and they are currently buying up all the reps and senators that YOU elected to do the job of running YOUR country.

I support the Occupy Movement and the 99 Percenters. Here is a clear voice on their/our/my behalf:

Why I love My Buddha!

2011-12-04T08:15:00.000-08:00

"Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it." The Buddha

If I never hold another spiritual viewpoint, this one will always remain my guiding principle.

May your spiritual journey be interesting, twisty, chaotic, purposeful, and ultimately satisfying.

What You Don't Know About Christmas--And Probably Should!

2011-12-02T14:44:00.000-08:00

Ah, that time of the year again. You're doing your shopping, preparing for another big feast, and getting ready to either bring in lots of folks to your home, or to be a guest in someone else's. Good times. Yeah, very good times. Family, friends, pets, kids, bells, songs, trees, lights, snowmen, and of course, Santa!

Oops...

Almost forgot Jesus.

Funny thing about Jesus. The Bible never actually tells us when he was born. There are clues, however. In Luke, he is said to be born during the time of Herod, while in Mark, the story simply begins with Jesus' baptism.

So, what's the real deal about Jesus? About Christmas? About mangers and eastern stars and wise astrologers (yes, astrologers) and virgin mothers?

Over the centuries, we've been told a lot of stories about this man, this savior, this so-called king, this Messiah, Son of David, come to save his people from their sins.

But there's a real story, a story that does not fit with the religious rhetoric that has been handed down for at least 200 years in one form and more than a thousand in another form. Nor does it fit with the secular Christmas--the toys, the meals, the caroling--not any of it.

If you want to know the real history of this amazing holiday, there are plenty of places online that will escort you on a great tour. I've picked one of them. Why this one? Because it's more from a Jewish perspective. The Jews are the ones who have borne the brunt of this holiday and its sister, Easter, for many centuries. They have been abused, mocked, and killed by the millions. This site lets them tell a different, maybe better story of Christmas. Read, research, enjoy. And awaken.

http://www.simpletoremember.com/vitals/Christmas_TheRealStory.htm

I'd love to know your opinion about all this so please do leave a comment below.

Many blessings to you and have a, well, enlightened holiday season.

Remembering Our Friends and Families On World AIDS Day - 2011

2011-12-01T16:11:00.000-08:00

It was the early 1980s when the reality of AIDS hit my community in Denver. By the end of that decade, and into the early years of the 1990s, I had lost seven close friends, with more to follow by 1995.

This disease did not play favorites. Both straight and gay friends were its target. Today, though, we have medication that extends folks' lives way past what we thought was possible only a few years ago. My friend Michael is now 20 years past diagnosis. And I am very grateful.

Bruce, Dean, Don, Willy, Dave, Bob and Jimmy, Lois, Ann, and Paula: I still think of you. I love you. You helped to make me what I am today.

(This disease, though in check a bit, has not yet been eradicated. On behalf of friends, family, your community, and your world, please continue to support the effort to make AIDS a disease of the past.)

Doggie, Kittie: It's All In Your Point of View...

2011-11-29T13:02:00.000-08:00

I was given permission to use this from a LinkedIn connection, who promptly informed me that he had swiped it from somewhere else. I do not know the 'somewhere else' so I hereby give credit to whomever created this little piece of wit. It's a jewel, indeed.

The Dog's Diary

8:00 am - Dog food! My favorite thing!
9:30 am - A car ride! My favorite thing!
9:40 am - A walk in the park! My favorite thing!
10:30 am - Got rubbed and petted! My favorite thing!
12:00 pm - Milk bones! My favorite thing!
1:00 pm - Played in the yard! My favorite thing!
3:00 pm - Wagged my tail! My favorite thing!
5:00 pm - Dinner! My favorite thing!
7:00 pm - Got to play ball! My favorite thing!
8:00 pm - Wow! Watched TV with the people! My favorite thing!
11:00 pm - Sleeping on the bed! My favorite thing!

The Cat's Diary
(Or, Day 983 of My Captivity)

My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while the other inmates and I are fed hash or some sort of dry nuggets. Although I make my contempt for the rations perfectly clear, I nevertheless must eat something in order to keep up my strength.

The only thing that keeps me going is my dream of escape. In an attempt to disgust them, I once again vomit on the carpet. Today I decapitated a mouse and dropped its headless body at their feet. I had hoped this would strike fear into their hearts, since it clearly demonstrates my capabilities. However, they merely made condescending comments about what a "good little hunter" I am. Bastards!

There was some sort of assembly of their accomplices tonight. I was placed in solitary confinement for the duration of the event. However, I could hear the noises and smell the food. I overheard that my confinement was due to the power of "allergies." I must learn what this means, and how to use it to my advantage.

Today I was almost successful in an attempt to assassinate one of my tormentors by weaving around his feet as he was walking. I must try this again tomorrow, but at the top of the stairs.

I am convinced that the other prisoners here are flunkies and snitches. The dog receives special privileges. He is regularly released, and seems to be more than willing to return. He is obviously retarded. The bird must be an informant. I observe him communicate with the guards regularly. I am certain that he reports my every move. My captors have arranged protective custody for him in an elevated cell, so he is safe. For now ...

Fantastic! An Early Resolution For 2012 That You Can Actually Keep

2011-11-25T16:28:00.001-08:00

We're coming up on another new year. It's still a bit more than a month away, but it will arrive upon the scene faster than we realize. With that in mind, let's agree to make a new year's resolution we can keep, OK? After all, 2012 promises to be a year of changes, a year of surprises, a year of shake-ups, personally, professionally, globally. Some even think that on Dec. 21 of next year, the whole thing will come to an abrupt end. So, why not get the most of it?

First a quote, then the resolution, then a closing quote. You won't have to make any further resolutions. You'll be covered until next December at the earliest, maybe longer. Depends on two things: Your resolve, your attitude. I'll allow you to determine your own participation in both.

The quote: "You have two choices in life. You can dissolve into the mainstream, or you can be distinct. To be distinct, you must be different. To be different, you must strive to be what no one else but you can be." Alan Ashley-Pitt.

The resolution: In 2012 and beyond, I will be nothing but my best self--authentic, real, available, and open.

Too much? Tone it down if you must. But I guarantee this is one resolution you can keep, if you want to. It will not only make your year an amazing one, it will change your life forever.

I remember an episode of TV's Two and a Half Men where Alan tells his son Jake, on the first day of middle school, to dress to blend in, keep to the sidelines. He told Jake that you don't want to stand out. You might get hurt. The key is low key at all times.

Wow. What a way to go through life. Not me, not you.

This coming year is destined to be your best year yet. That is, if you decide to make it so. So, decide. See you on the other side of January!

Final quote: "If you're not pissing a few people off, raising a few eyebrows, you're not living big enough." Erin Brockovich

The Real (and Gruesome) Thanksgiving: A Little Bit of Troubling History

2011-11-24T17:37:00.000-08:00

Well, what did you expect?

I try to be as honest about my position as possible. I do not celebrate this Thanksgiving holiday anymore for a couple of reasons...

I'm vegetarian. Friends and family now understand. It took a while. I used hear such things as, "Well, you can just eat the other stuff, like the dressing and yams and pie." No. Better to stay away from dinner on Thursday, let them enjoy their left-overs on Friday, and I will visit them on Saturday or Sunday. I have an aversion to that poor bird sitting in the middle of the table. I know what it had to go through to get to that 'honored' place. Again, no thanks.
I am aware of how we got the whole Thanksgiving holiday in the first place and it isn't pretty. Here is a link that will give you as much info as you want or need to know:

http://www.danielnpaul.com/TheRealThanksgiving.html

We each must choose our path based on beliefs, desires, needs, and self-indulgences. I do not seek to judge you on this holiday if you choose to partake in the sharing of the bird. Just wanted you to know a little more about what you have chosen.

Blessings to you and yours on this 'special' day in America.

Did You Choose To Be Here, On This Planet, In This Moment? Or Not?

2011-11-21T07:04:00.000-08:00

Does a fish know it's in the water?

I do not know the answers to life's toughest questions. I do not know if I chose to come to this planet or not. All I know is that I have a choice in front of me. I can believe all the superstitious woo woo, or I can be the perennial skeptic. Since I do not know, I choose skeptic.

What others tell me must pass through my personal sieve, be judged for what it is, kept or tossed, and then, eventually I, like everything else, will die. It's that simple. What I do between birth and death is the big question.

So, with that in mind, I choose to believe that the universe is simple, logical, consistent, lawful, and wonderfully mysterious. I am here because my parents had sex, egg and sperm connected, I was born, and now I'm having this discussion, writing this post.

I can also choose how to be in relationship with the world: Compassionate or nasty, understanding or egotistical. My decision will determine the direction of my life from this point forward.

If there is anything beyond that, it has yet to show itself. When it does, I shall consider it.

Simple, to the point, open, curious, and doubtful of all philosophies, religions, and even certain science 'facts.'*

And, above all, I've had a ball. I hope you have as well.

Blessings.

*Actually, facts are simply the spot where science has stopped the research...at least for the moment.

How to REALLY Shake Up the Far Right in America

2011-11-20T09:04:00.000-08:00

Right-leaning Americans, what does it take to get you riled, to make you angry, to get you to sit up and take notice? Let's see...

You didn't get mad when the Supreme Court stopped a legal recount and appointed a President.   
You didn't get mad when Cheney allowed Energy company officials to dictate energy policy.  
You didn't get mad when a covert CIA operative got outed.  
You didn't get mad when the Patriot Act got passed.  
You didn't get mad when we illegally invaded a country that posed no threat to us.  
You didn't get mad when we spent over $600 billion (and counting) on said illegal war.  
You didn't get mad when over $10 billion just disappeared in Iraq.  
You didn't get mad when you found out we were torturing people.  
You didn't get mad when the government was illegally wiretapping Americans.  
You didn't get mad when we didn't catch Bin Laden.  
You didn't get mad when you saw the horrible conditions at Walter Reed Hospital.  
You didn't get mad when we let a major US city, New Orleans, drown.  
You didn't get mad when we gave a $900 billion tax break to the rich.  
You didn't get mad when the deficit hit the trillion dollar mark.  
You finally got mad when the government decided that people in America deserved the right to see a doctor if they are sick. Yes, illegal wars, lies, corruption, torture, stealing your tax dollars to make the rich richer, are all okay with you, but helping other Americans. . .oh hell no!

(This list has been circulating around the internet for a while now, but it never hurts to bring it back now and then, throw it in a few faces and ask, "Why? Why is anyone so willing to take all the crap that the Powers That Be can throw out but unwilling to stand with The People?"

If you're honest, you will admit that you may have been taking the wrong side.

Blessings to all Americans and may we ultimately find the way to cooperation and peace.

"Relationships are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists because it is in relationship to everything else. Nothing exists in isolation. We have to stop pretending we are individuals [who] can go it alone." Margaret Wheatley

Occupy America: Regaining Our Freedom, Democracy, and Middle Class

2011-11-20T08:08:00.000-08:00

To Occupy:

To engage the attention or energies of...
To a) take up (a place or extent in space)... b) to take or fill (an extent in time)
To a) take or hold possession or control of... b) to fill or perform the functions of...
To reside in as an owner or tenant...

For those of you who are criticizing the Occupy America movement, just remember this:

They (we) are doing it for you, your children, your country, your way of life, your freedom, your future. The Powers That Be want it to appear as if we are the Anarchist. In reality, we are the freedom fighters. Don't be fooled by Citizens United*, Ann Coulter, Bill O'Reilly, Frank Luntz, Newt Gingrich, the Koch Brothers, Monsanto, Bank of America, Exxon, Big Insurance, Big Medicine, and the rest of the ultra-conservative, Far Right, dominionist elements in the US that would strip all of us of our First Amendment rights in order to progress their own agendas of oppression and dictatorship.

To the Occupy America Movement:

It has been said that diamonds are simply chunks of coal that withstood the pressure. You are diamonds. Don't give into the pressure from those who would steal our democracy, our freedom, and our Middle Class.

Both New Possibilities Center and I stand with the Occupy America Movement.

*By the way, if you are seeking truth, avoid these sources:

http://www.examiner.com/liberal-in-orlando/50-of-the-worst-places-you-can-get-your-news#ixzz1eG0dkzdr

Creating Jobs: How The One Percent (1%) Can Really Help

2011-11-16T08:11:00.001-08:00

"To die rich is to have lived in vain."
J. Krishnamurti

I saw a news story recently about a very wealthy person who was donating $500,000 in order for a school to be able to buy the steel needed for its reconstruction. It struck me as both kind and savvy.

You One Per Centers, the folks that Occupy is trying to reach, here's how you could become very big in their eyes. Instead of constantly trying to increase your holdings, take those holdings and rebuild the communities that have provided you with the means and methods to build your little empire in the first place. Take some of that money or that land and give it to the schools, the libraries, and other civic institutions than cannot survive without your help. Provide jobs, help the homeless, make sure kids are fed, receive medical help, and education.

Damn it! Quit hoarding. It's a sickness. And it's a sickness that you can cure. Plus, you will set an example for those confused and chaotic members of Congress who just can't seem to get it together.

This isn't socialism. This is people helping people. It's providing jobs so that the people can once again contribute to the good of society.

You don't have to wait for the state or federal governments to act. You can start now. Just like the person who provided the steel to the school, search your heart and see how good your wealth can really be.

It sure isn't helping anyone by sitting in banks, stocks, and other illusory profit makers. And if you don't, there's a good chance your world will crumble along with everyone else's.

It's on your shoulders. Do the right thing. Spread the wealth.

You may well be the biggest winner!

What Do You Mean, "Forgive"? I Just Can't!!

2011-11-14T09:11:00.000-08:00

Set yourself free!

"If I forgive, they go free." Wrong.

So, you've been hurt, disrespected, or any number of aggravated 'assaults' upon your person, your character, your life. It's nasty. I know. I've had my share. And I have carried a lot of resentment and anger over the years.

Has all that emotion served me? Yes. It has served me well. It allowed me to stay wrapped in self-pity for a lot of years. And it felt good, justified, even necessary.

Until I realized that, as the saying goes, while I was holding the grudge, they were out dancing. Turns out, all that bitterness was hurting only one person: Me.

It was tough, but I finally discovered the secret to forgiveness. Take it or leave it but this is all there is to it. Get this and you go free:

Forgiveness is simply letting go of the desire, the need, to punish.

The only person you let off the hook is you. And the path turns gold.

"One joy scatters a hundred griefs." Chinese Proverb

How Many Weddings Do You Think Took Place on 11/11/11?

2011-11-12T16:25:00.000-08:00

I don't know the complete number, but I did one that was part of it!! Beautiful setting at Cathedral Park, under the historic St. John's Bridge, Portland, Oregon. Many congrats to Anne and Paul...

Mrs. and Mrs. Paul Burnum

What's Your Dream? Seven Simple Steps to Making It Come True

2011-11-08T10:00:00.000-08:00

What's your dream?

"Reality is for those who lack imagination" Brian Klemmer

You don't get what you want because you don't really know what that is, do you? Now you can know it and manifest it and enjoy it and even change it later to something else. Here's the openly hidden secret:

How to Visualize...

Create a clear picture of “how things are.” Don’t lie to yourself. How you feel is how you feel. If it’s fear, it’s fear.
Slowly change it to what you think you want. You may not really know, but you need to start somewhere. Details later.
Surround the picture with a dark, plain frame. This focuses the scene and focus is essential for clarity.
Get a "feel" for the new picture. Comfortable? Tense? Exciting? Scary? What feelings does your picture evoke? Feelings matter here.
Slowly change the frame to a different color. See if your feelings change about the picture as your color changes.
Bring more detail into the picture, then place yourself in the center of it. Again, observe your feelings.
Now, allow the frame to slowly fade. Continue to gauge your feelings. Is this what you REALLY want? If not, go through the process again until you get a comfortable sense that you’re headed in the right direction.

Make this process a game. It will ultimately get you to your True and Comfortable Intention. Once you know that, you’re on your way to manifesting it. Don’t be surprised, though, if what you thought you wanted isn’t really what you want. Things, people, goals, and times change. And that’s OK.

Work this simple process as often as necessary until you’re absolutely clear on what you want. Then, write it down in one clear statement. That’s when the fun begins. Once clear, you’ll be amazed at how everything begins to arrange itself in order to bring your desire into reality. It's not luck, it's energy!

But don’t take my word for it. Do it. Watch the results. They’ll speak for themselves.

Trust: It's What You Do, Not What You Say - Part 6 of 6 (Video)

2011-11-07T09:08:00.000-08:00

Can you be trusted? (Pt 6 of 6)

This video clip (Part 6) was shot at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington, June 2011. The message is on Trustworthiness. We often look for people we can trust. We hope we can trust our colleagues, friends and family. But the real question is, how trustworthy are we? That's what really matters. And the world can tell by observing just how closely our words match our actions, our deeds match our claims.

Trust: It's What You Do, Not What You Say - Pt 5 of 6 (Video)

2011-11-06T06:15:00.000-08:00

Can you be trusted? (Pt 5 of 6)

This video clip (Part 5) was shot at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington, June 2011. The message is on Trustworthiness. We often look for people we can trust. We hope we can trust our colleagues, friends and family. But the real question is, how trustworthy are we? That's what really matters. And the world can tell by observing just how closely our words match our actions, our deeds match our claims.

Trust: It's What You Do, Not What You Say - Pt 4 of 6 (Video)

2011-11-05T10:54:00.000-07:00

Can You Be Trusted? (Part 4 of 6)

This video clip (Part 4) was shot at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington, June 2011. The message is on Trustworthiness. We often look for people we can trust. We hope we can trust our colleagues, friends and family. But the real question is, how trustworthy are we? That's what really matters. And the world can tell by observing just how closely our words match our actions, our deeds match our claims.

Trust: It's What You Do, Not What You Say - Part 3 of 6 (Video)

2011-11-04T15:45:00.000-07:00

Can you be trusted? (Part 3 of 6)

This video clip (Part 3) was shot at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington, June 2011. The message is on Trustworthiness. We often look for people we can trust. We hope we can trust our colleagues, friends and family. But the real question is, how trustworthy are we? That's what really matters. And the world can tell by observing just how closely our words match our actions, our deeds match our claims.

Trust: It's What You Do, Not What You Say - Part 2 of 6 (Video)

2011-11-04T11:16:00.000-07:00

Can You Be Trusted? (Part 2 of 6)

This video clip (Part 2) was shot at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington, June 2011. The message is on Trustworthiness. We often look for people we can trust. We hope we can trust our colleagues, friends and family. But the real question is, how trustworthy are we? That's what really matters. And the world can tell by observing just how closely our words match our actions, our deeds match our claims.

Waking Up: How to Live 'Til You Find "The Answer"

2011-11-03T08:18:00.000-07:00

Practical Spirituality at its best...

"With awareness comes confusion." Richard Brodie, Virus of the Mind

If you're currently on some kind of spiritual quest or even if you think you've found 'the truth', I'll bet all your questions haven't been answered yet. Did you expect that when you 'saw the light', everything would just fall into place and the search would be over? Surprise! You're still on the journey. How do I know? Because that's the way it's supposed to be. It's not about a destination. There's always another hill beyond the one you just scaled. And if you're honest, you don't want it to be any other way. The joy is in the journey.

With that, I offer this: If you want the present moment to be the best it can be, choose to be of service. Service, though sounding all high and mighty, is actually a rather selfish practice. Even though others get the benefit of your actions, you are the one who will ultimately benefit the most. It's good for you, it's good for them, everyone wins.

Service. There's your answer. Confusion over. Next hill, please.

"I slept and dreamt that life was joy; I awoke and found that life was service. I acted, and behold! Service became joy!" Rabindranath Tagore, Indian poet

Life Is No Brief Candle - Living Like It Matters (George Bernard Shaw)

2011-11-01T10:42:00.001-07:00

George Bernard Shaw 1856-1950
No 'brief candle'

George Bernard Shaw had a lot to say. Much of his musings are, well, not my style, but these particular quotes are winners. They've been used, reused, and used again. Still they remain pertinent and powerful. Read, contemplate, enjoy...

I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and that as long as I live it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no 'brief candle' to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for a moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.

And

This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.

Each of us is called to a choice: Do we wrap ourselves in self-pity, arrogance, and greed? Or do we step out into the world, risks and all, and declare ourselves to be a contribution, serving each other to the best of our abilities?

The answer will determine the outcome of your life...and the world.

Trust: It's What You Do, Not What You Say - Part 1 of 6 (Video)

2011-10-30T23:20:00.000-07:00

Can you be trusted?

This video clip was shot at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington, June 2011. The message was on Trustworthiness. We often look for people we can trust. We hope we can trust our colleagues, friends and family. But the real question is, how trustworthy are we? That's what really matters. And the world can tell by observing just how closely our words match our actions, our deeds match our claims.

Love Is The Answer

2011-10-29T10:51:00.000-07:00

From a recent wedding I performed in the beautiful Columbia River Gorge, near Portland, Oregon, Spring 2011, with a few other photos thrown in for the fun of it...

Having a Little Fun...

2011-10-27T21:50:00.000-07:00

Just recently discovered Animoto, which can make quick and free little videos for you from your photos. It's kinda fun. Will make more, and get better, I'm sure. This is just a series of photos of me and mine from around the Portland/Vancouver area in 2010 and 2011. Try it. You might have fun, too!

Blessings to you and enjoy your Halloween!

How to Make Good Luck the Simple Way

2011-10-26T09:24:00.000-07:00

Some light thoughts for a beautiful day...

"When an old pond gets a new frog, it's a new pond." (from a Japanese poem)
The smallest of changes can set you on a whole new path. Be open to new possibilities. Luck is being open.

"Realize what you really want. It stops you from chasing butterflies and puts you to work digging gold." (William Moulton Marston)
Get committed to something. Otherwise, everything you do is watered down. Become The Master. Luck races toward The Master.

"A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds." (Sir Frances Bacon)
Opportunity can fall right into your lap, if you place your lap where opportunities are falling. As has been said, luck favors the prepared mind. Get off the couch, go outside, look up. Thank your lucky stars.

And finally,

"We build emotional, mental, and spiritual capacity in precisely the same way that we build physical capacity. We must systematically expose ourselves to stress beyond our normal limits, followed by adequate recovery." (Jim Loehr/Tony Schwartz, The Power of Full Engagement, 2003)
There is no pie in the sky. No one is coming to save you. It's up to you. And that's as it should be. Otherwise, you turn to mush.

Your luck has just changed. You are not mush.

Are You Living Fully?

2011-10-24T09:15:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite poems...

RISKS

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool,

To weep is to risk being called sentimental.

To reach out to another is to risk involvement.

To expose feelings is to risk showing your true self.

To place your ideas and your dreams before the crowd is to risk being called naive.

To love is to risk not being loved in return,

To live is to risk dying,

To hope is to risk despair,

To try is to risk failure

But risks must be taken, because the greatest risk in life is to risk nothing.

The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing.

He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow or love.

Chained by his certitude, he is a slave; he has forfeited his freedom.

Only the person who risks is truly free.

Often attributed to the poet and thinker, Leo Buscaglia, the real author of this inspirational verse is Janet Rand

President Obama Keeps Promise to End Iraq War and Republicans Complain...Again

2011-10-21T16:59:00.000-07:00

"Our species is far too clever to survive without wisdom."
E. F. Shumacher

Today, President Obama announced that the troops in Iraq will leave that country by the end of the year. It's what the nation has been waiting for since former President Bush declared victory on board that aircraft carrier back in 2003. And what are the Republicans doing? Bashing the President for doing what he promised to do.

There is only one word for that kind of response to the end of the Iraq war:

Hypocrite.

This war was illegal and immoral and senselessly killed hundreds of thousands of people, both American and Iraqi, along with Coalition Forces, and wounded even more.

I personally thank you, Mr. President, for taking this most decisive step. Our troops will have a very special holiday season, indeed.

"Each person sees only a fraction of the whole, but tends to identify the whole with the fraction." Richard Kent Matthews

The Truth and Thomas Jefferson: 18th Century Wisdom in a 21st Century World

2011-10-19T20:50:00.000-07:00

A lot of words have been ascribed to Thomas Jefferson, some accurately, others not so much. But if these words are actually from his brain, then he was indeed our contemporary. Read and be amazed:

"Nothing can now be believed which is seen in a newspaper. Truth itself becomes suspicious by being put in that polluted vehicle."

Looks like nothing has really changed, except maybe the fact that you can now throw in TV, the internet, Smart Phones, texting, and computer hacking.

Seems truth is as elusive as ever.

Holy Roller Doggie!

2011-10-16T16:48:00.000-07:00

This animal really got caught up in the Spirit that Sunday at Abundant Life Center, Vancouver, Washington. We all laughed with him, not at him! Dogs are magnificent, are they not?

Laughter Makes the Heart Grow Stronger: Spiritual Growth with a Smile

2011-10-15T08:46:00.000-07:00

Laughter heals!

Why you might want to laugh more

"A merry heart doeth good like medicine, but a broken spirit drieth the bone." Prov. 17:22

How often do you laugh? Really laugh? Deep belly laughing? In case you haven't already heard, laughter can be quite healing. Here are just a few of the benefits:

Non-fattening! You can enjoy it often and not gain a pound. In fact, it may stimulate your metabolism to actually help you loose a few.
Increases blood circulation and stimulates faster oxygen delivery.
Aids digestion and elimination. Laugh enough and you won't be so 'full of it'!
Amplifies respiration; helps body ventilation.
Activates and exercises internal organs and muscles. (100 laughs = 10 minutes on a rowing machine! I can't prove it, but it's worth the effort.)
Releases endorphins, a natural painkiller and pleasure enhancer.
Boosts components of the immune system.
Here's one you'll really like: Laughter connects both hemispheres of the brain and along with orgasm, creates total brain symmetry! Can't ask for better than that, eh?
Cathartic; can vanquish emotional and physical tension; releases hostility; helps curb heart trouble; makes you feel good. For you more spiritual types, it helps you to relax and your level of relaxation reflects your level of trust--in God, in Spirit, in the universe, in others, in yourself.
And when you are laughing with--not at--people, they feel less threatened around you, and trust you more.

Finally, happiness is not something that can be sought, that can be found. Happiness is the result of all the choices, actions, and thoughts that spin through your life moment by moment. The more you laugh, the more that little bluebird of happiness lands on your shoulder.

You have been designed for happiness. You have also been given the choice. Find reasons to laugh every day. Opportunities are everywhere. And you'll be the better for it.

"What then, is the right way of living? Life must be lived as play." Plato

Hair Salon Massacre in California

2011-10-13T08:36:00.000-07:00

The news this morning, as bad as it often is, hit me harder than usual. There has been another massacre--a crazy gun toter, angry at his ex-wife, burst into a Southern California hair salon and murdered eight innocent people. The community as well as the individual families are, not surprisingly, in a state of shock.

This particular story is more than personal to me. I was a hair stylist for the first 15 years of my professional life. I owned or managed a number of salons in California, Colorado, and British Columbia. I was good, too. My salons were usually packed with people Thursday through Saturday. Tuesdays and Wednesdays were Senior Discount days. They were fun. Lots of blue hair and chatter about the 1930s and 40s.

No one ever thinks that a trip to the hair salon will be their last trip anywhere.

My thoughts and sympathies are in Seal Beach, California, this morning.

Why Do You Think You're Here? - How To Put Fire Into Your Life

2011-10-09T10:12:00.000-07:00

“It’s not good enough that we do our best. Sometimes we have to do what’s required.” Winston Churchill

Let’s get you thinking—really thinking—today. If you believe you have some sort of purpose in this life other than to just do time, what is that? Do you know? Are you living it? If not, answering these questions will help you discover how to have a greater impact—on your world, on yourself:

What’s most important to you?
What are your deeply held values?
What kind of person do you wish to be?
How do you want to be remembered by others, not just after you die, but as you encounter them on a daily basis?
What accomplishments would help you feel and know that you’ve contributed your part to this planet and its inhabitants?
What holds you back?

You don’t have to do long drawn out exercises or go to expensive or even free workshops and seminars to get a good idea of where you can be most effective. By answering these questions, you remove the blinders and barriers in your life. Now, you can choose to either move forward, or continue to procrastinate.

But you’ll know your purpose.

“However you view success, decide, begin, don’t stop.” Danny Cox

Distorting the Truth...Slightly (Practical Spirituality, New Thought-style)

2011-10-05T21:02:00.000-07:00

G.C. Lichtenberg, 18th century physicist, said, "The most dangerous of all falsehoods is a slightly distorted truth."

Here's one of those slightly distorted truths. Ever heard of Lucifer? The Fallen Angel? The Devil? Satan? Sure you have. You might even believe him to be a real thing, a being, a personality, if you will. But here's the slight distortion...

Lucifer is mentioned but one time in the entire Bible, in Isaiah 14:12: "How you are fallen from heaven O Lucifer, son of the morning..." In actuality, Lucifer is a Latin word, stuck into the middle of a Hebrew passage. How do you suppose that happened? Latin hadn't even been created, and wouldn't be for a long time to come, when this passage was first quilled. But wait. It gets better.

Lucifer is actually the old Roman name for Venus. It means Bringer of the Dawn, or The Light Bearer, The Bright Morning Star. Which, of course, is what Venus is. Ever seen her in the morning, just before the sun comes up? Beautiful. That's Lucifer.

Now, to twist this just a bit further and to make this as short and sweet as possible, Jesus is referred to in the New Testament as The Bright Morning Star. Say what?

See what happens with a slightly distorted truth? In the only place Lucifer is mentioned in the Bible, he comes off as an evil entity and is cursed from there on out. When he's mentioned in the New Testament as Jesus, he comes off as the Son of God.

As Pontius Pilate so aptly asked, "What is truth?"

"The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out." Prov. 18:15

How to Love Yourself the Simple Way

2011-10-03T09:58:00.000-07:00

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition." Alexander Smith

In serving the world, I have come to appreciate my capabilities. And self appreciation is the first step to self love.

Serve, appreciate, love.

Simple steps to powerful outcomes.

"Compassion is not religious business; it is human business; it is not luxury, it is essential for our own peace and mental stability; it is essential for human survival." His Holiness, The Dalai Lama

The English Language and What the Gurus Won't Tell You

2011-10-01T08:23:00.000-07:00

You're probably one of those who has read a few spiritual books or listened to audio CDs or watched spiritual DVDs. Maybe you've participated in workshops, seminars, or church groups that often throw around quotes from the "Masters" and teachers from out of our distant past. You've studied the Bible, the Qur'an, the Gita, the Tao Te Ching, the Upanishads. Perhaps you've allowed the teachings of the Buddha to become part of your personal path.

Well, here's a wake-up call for you and you can quote me on this:

English spelling was not standardized until Samuel Johnson created and published the first comprehensive dictionary in London in 1755. Up until then, spelling and meaning were all over the place. Each village, town, and city had its own way of speaking, writing (for those who were literate, which were few), and interpreting previous documents and manuscripts. Much of it was done by church scholars, who, not surprisingly, had their own biases and agendas. They would often change things around to suit the beliefs of the day.

Here's the point. Much of what you have read and have been quoting from all those old teachers and spiritual gurus doesn't come close to anything they may have actually said, or worse, anything they actually meant. And studying it in English helps to lose even more of its original integrity. You are thinking and studying with a contemporary mindset and seeking to fit very old texts and beliefs into that context. It's very difficult, if not impossible in some cases, to do at all, let alone to do it well.

We can learn a great deal from the words of antiquity--when we get them right. Too often, however, we just take it for granted that the writings that have come down to us through the ages convey exactly what the authors or the scribes or the interpreters had in mind. Problem is, we really don't know. How could we? We're talking about minds that believed in snake gods and lightning gods and evil temptress spirits. At least that's what I THINK we're talking about...

We've made it all up, those interpretations and meanings of ours. And sometimes we've done a pretty good job. Still, it makes sense to realize that, since all of the past is open for judgment, we can pick and choose what we will or won't accept. Nothing, paradoxically, is written in stone.

My advice, if I may be so bold, is to heed these paraphrased words of the Buddha (if he actually wrote them): Do not believe anything you hear or read just because some great sage has mouthed it. Do not believe anything just because someone else tells you it's true or because you've read it in some great book or tablet or scroll. (Or CNN, MSNBC, FOX, etc.) Don't even believe it if you hear me say it. Believe only that which resonates within your own heart and spirit. If it makes sense to you, hear it. If not, discard it. Be kind in your dealings with others as they, too, are seeking truth.

You have the world at your feet. Tread and discern wisely. Take old words as well as new ones with a grain of salt. Others are reading them--and living them--quite differently.

Wisdom, then, would suggest that we keep our minds and hearts open. After all, we're in this together.

Giving Advice in 7 Steps: Sharing What You Know While Remaining Likable

2011-09-29T08:47:00.000-07:00

"Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others." Jacob Braude

Braude's above quote smacks of a kind of truth that most of us teachers, trainers, seminar and workshop leaders, ministers, priests, rabbis and mullahs have a tendency to overlook. We think we have something to say and if we say it just right, it will sink in to the listener, the viewer, the trainee, the student. We forget, though, that the recipients of our wisdom come to us for their own reasons, not ours.

With that in mind, here are seven points* for us gurus (and anyone who desires to dispense advice, which, it turns out, is most of us) to grasp and understand as we fling our accumulated brain wares out into the Four Winds:

Everyone comes to the learning situation with a lifetime of experiences, regardless of age.
Those experiences are different from all others.
They include the ability to perform many skills.
They also include misconceptions, biases, prejudices, and preferences. Some of what people think they know is actually wrong.
People trying to learn something new are vulnerable.
Learners avoid pain and embarrassment. Don't cause it.
Learners feel good about themselves when their learning is recognized or when something good happens as a result of their progress and successes.

Paying attention to these important truths will help us understand that what we have to offer can only be received and be of benefit when we share it with respect, honesty, and humility.

As the little old poem says, "Lord, fill my mouth with worthwhile stuff...and nudge me when I've said enough."

*The above list is attributed to Robert Mager, from his book What Every Manager Should Know About Training, 2nd Ed. 1999

If You Could Just Love Enough...

2011-09-23T16:05:00.003-07:00

Emmet Fox, one of my favorite spiritual philosophers, wrote the following little comment on love that I think covers it all. If anyone asks you from this point on, "What's love got to do with it?", refer them to this post.

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer. There is no disease that enough love will not heal. No door that enough love will not open. No guilt that enough love will not bridge. No wall that enough love will not throw down. And no sin that enough love will not redeem.

It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble, how hopeless the outlook, how muddled the tangle, how great the mistake. A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all. And if you could love enough, you would be the happiest and most powerful person in the world.

And how do you accomplish all this? You simply choose to do so.

"Whoever would be great among you shall be your servant." Jesus (Matt. 20:26)

Rough Weather and the Wrath of God

2011-09-19T20:41:00.000-07:00

What a powerful year for the weather in the United States, this 2011 of ours. Record heat in Texas, hundreds of tornadoes causing major damage in the Midwest and South. Floods of epic proportions. Hurricanes all the way to New England. Even earthquakes on the East Coast. Summer isn't even over yet. Wonder what the winter has in store...

Within hours after the major weather events this year, certain radical religious leaders began proclaiming each one as 'The wrath of an angry God, fed up with the way an immoral America is taking her course.' (The repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell coming up tonight at 12:01 a.m. must really have them on the edge of their religious seats.)

Really? Again?

Two things come quickly to mind...

These kinds of weather patterns--damaging, ferocious, unusual ones--have been happening off and on for thousands of years. Even during the lifetime of the United States, many years have seen amazing weather catastrophes that seem to announce Armageddon.

Also, the Creator of the universe would seem pretty petty to be so concerned with one little nation on one little planet in one obscure galaxy in a collection of galaxies--so concerned and irritated that he could get angry enough to break the natural laws and deliberately slap that nation with extreme weather calamities. Of course, these radicals forget that powerful weather shockers are happening all over the world, all of the time.

A 'radical' example. In 2005, when Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, one of the Far Right loud mouth-ers, the Reverend(?) Pat Robertson, was quick to point out that God had sent the storm to New Orleans because the city was having a Gay Pride Parade. Turns out, the French Quarter, where the parade was to be held and most of the gay population lives, was left intact while the most damage was done to poor, Black and mostly good Christian neighborhoods like the 9th Ward. Was God's GPS offline?

Recently, the Catholic church has admitted that the earth and the cosmos were not created in just six days, but over many, many eons. According to the Vatican, evolution appears to be God's creative process. Our Protestant and evangelical friends could take a lesson. I applaud the Church for its courage. I don't always agree with or like Her policies; in this case, I am totally on board.

The Power and Presence that brought the universe into existence through the natural evolutionary process never breaks its own laws. That would make it inconsistent, irrational, and most of all, untrustworthy.

And, from what I have been able to observe from my tiny little corner of the world, the Creator is, if nothing else, trustworthy. And I am grateful.

The winds will blow, the waves will crash, the air will swirl, the planet will quake. The cosmos will continue to do what the cosmos does. And Armageddon will continue to be on the lips of the radicals. Still, I can say with some certainty that Armageddon, as predicted in Scripture, will not be ushering in any time soon.

And so it is.

There's Peace in Getting Down! Boogie Oogie, Oogie!

2011-09-17T17:32:00.000-07:00

It's been a frantic week for me. A doctor's appointment to see if I had a bit of skin cancer (Nope!), my cat of 22 years died in my arms, and I found out the new volunteer job I wanted was with a for-profit instead of a non-profit. My own fault for not researching a bit further. Adding insult to injury, my best friend is leaving for Hawaii on Wednesday. Was I invited? No!

I could get angry about all that, if I let myself. I could say I was on the receiving end of a lot of nasty karma. But I won't. Why? Because I remember the wise words of that old fluffy philosopher, Buddy Hackett:

"I never hold grudges. While you're holding grudges, they're out dancing."

With that in mind, I am allowing myself a quiet weekend without regret, remembering my cat with love, being grateful for relatively healthy skin, and am ready to begin looking for a new volunteer job on Monday.

Life is grand. Think I'll dance a little...

How You Can Create World Peace - A 9/11 Special Report

2011-09-11T16:49:00.000-07:00

"The agenda of the Third Millennium is to strip down religions to their spiritual experience, developing practices and processes that awaken people instead of boring them, that bring out the gifts of the community." Matthew Fox

Can there be peace in such a violent world? What power, if any, do we as individuals have to influence peace one way or the other? Turns out, we have plenty.

It all begins with complete and total self-centeredness.
What?

Yes, self-centeredness. Or self-interest. Or high self-esteem. Or, well, call it what you will. It's healthy selfishness, first and foremost, that leads to both inner and outer peace. Stay with me and you'll see why.

First, make your own personal happiness the number one priority of your life. When you are truly happy, you will not be doing all those things that unhappy people do, like greed, grasping, grabbing, fear, fighting, revenge, retaliation, anger, arrogance, angst, complaining, gossiping, one-upping, or any of a gaggle of other goofy approaches to living within the human community. And the happier you are, the more you touch the world in healthy ways. You are no longer the center of attention. Paradox? Contradiction? Hardly.

(You notice I didn't say be happy. I said make it the number one priority. The way will show itself.)

Second, practice the most selfish path that the gods ever delivered to the human race: Compassion.

(Ah, the way just showed itself...)

Can compassion be defined in such a simple way that it cannot be misunderstood? Don't know for certain, but giving it a good try right here, right now.

Compassion is not an emotion. It is a practice. It is Love in Action. It is a choice, a decision, a commitment. You may feel good about it, but the emotional component is an added attraction, not the main event.

In a nutshell, do the least harm and the most good.

As you continue your consciousness raising practices, whatever those are, simply insert this phrase in with them somewhere any time you think about it. Write it down, carry it with you. Make it a habit and soon you'll begin to notice a difference in how you observe and move through the world. As you make a conscious choice to withdraw any harm in any of its insidious forms and add all the good you are capable of adding, without being pushy or intrusive, your life begins to take on the following qualities:

Inner peace.
A heightened sense of worthiness.
Increased sense of ability, possibility, and accomplishment.
Spontaneous joy.

Plus,

You'll allow yourself to be a bit more vulnerable, taking a bit more risk.
You'll find yourself forgiving without even thinking about it.
You may even become a bit less serious and more playful. (There are those in your life who would really appreciate that, eh??)
You will experience a new sense of gratitude. You won't be forcing it. No one will have to tell you to be thankful. You will find yourself walking in gratitude at all times. And within that state of consciousness is a new world. Miracles become apparent and plentiful. You'll wonder how you had been missing them.
Everything sparkles because you're now having more and more aha! moments as Nature's not-so-secret secrets willingly and gleefully reveal themselves to you. In fact, they roll at your feet like a happy puppy.

You may be one of the millions who have been clamoring for world peace, even fearful it may never or can never happen. Now you know you have the power and with it, a surefire way of helping peace to come upon the earth.

Compassion. The way to peace in the world and in your own heart. Guaranteed for life so start now. You'll be glad you did.

It all starts with a good dose of healthy selfishness.

Keep me posted on your progress. I love a good laugh!

A Mystic's Toolbox

2011-09-10T20:13:00.000-07:00

I was privileged and honored to be invited as a guest blogger on Christine Mattice's wonderful blog site. Click on the title of this post and join me there, and also enjoy the great stuff on her blog!!

Thanks, Christine, and many blessings to you...

How To Be Very, Very Attractive!

2011-09-10T09:57:00.000-07:00

I first read The Portable Coach by Thomas J. Leonard* way back in 1999. I have referred back to it many times since. It's one of the more powerful books on the Law of Attraction that I have found or read in all my years of interest in the subject. Why? Because it's not a bunch of woo woo nonsense; rather, it's practical, down to earth, usable, and applicable right now, in this moment. Read the list. This may be the beginning of a whole new and exciting adventure for you. I'm counting on it for you.

The 28 Principles of Attraction **

Become incredibly selfish.
Detach from the future.
Over-respond to every event.
Build a super-reserve in every area.
Add value just for the joy of it.
Affect others profoundly.
Market your talents shamelessly.
Become irresistibly attractive to yourself.
Get a fulfilling life, not an impressive lifestyle.
Promise little, deliver everything.
Create a vacuum that pulls you forward.
Eliminate delay.
Get your personal needs met once and for all.
Thrive on the details.
Tolerate nothing.
Show others how to please you.
Endorse your worst weaknesses.
Sensitize yourself.
Perfect your environment.
Develop more character than you need.
See how perfect the present really is.
Become unconditionally constructive.
Orient yourself around your values.
Simplify everything.
Master your craft.
Recognize and tell the truth.
Have a vision.
Be real, be human.

I highly recommend Leonard's books, which you can find at Amazon.com or other book sites. In the mean time, open yourself up to new possibilities. You really can create the life you want.

"If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price." (Attributed to several different and mostly anonymous sources, so I will take credit for it here!)

*Thomas J. Leonard (July 31, 1955 - February 11, 2003 in Phoenix, AZ) is considered a major contributor to the development of personal coaching. In 1992 he founded Coach University, and the International Coach Federation in 1994.

**Click on this link to get a more detailed explanation of each principle.

If You Had a Second Chance, What Would You Do Differently?

2011-09-06T19:05:00.000-07:00

A survey of 200 people over 60, taken not too long ago, asked this question:

If you were given the opportunity to live your life over, knowing what you know now, what would you do differently the second time around?

The answers were telling, indeed, but not all that surprising. Only a very small percentage said they would do it exactly the same. But the larger part of the participants answered in these ways, not necessarily in order of importance to the individuals:

I would...

Take time to find out what I really wanted to do with my life and live my dreams.
Take more risks.
Lighten up; laugh more.
Be more patient.
Be more open to others, less prejudiced and fearful.
Live more in the present moment.
Be more compassionate to others and to myself.

Bonnie Pruden wrote, "You can't turn back the clock; but you can wind it up again." What will you add to this list? What will you do to wind up your own clock? Can you begin now, in this moment, to live life on your own terms, by your own rules? Or will you continue along your present path, looking to others--like this post--to tell you what to do? It's your call. Always has been.

You still have time to offer to the world your very best. Don't let excuses, fear, and procrastination stop you from stepping out, stepping up, and moving forward. You still have time. Use it wisely. But use it.

"Don't leave this world with songs unsung." Ernie Zelinkski

Is Atheism a Religion? A Skeptic's View...

2011-09-04T09:47:00.000-07:00

Norman Geisler said, "I don't have enough faith to be an atheist." Indeed.

After having read such amazing and enthusiastic treatises against religion and for atheism by such literary luminaries as Sam Harris, Richard Dawkins, and Christopher Hitchens, I have come to the conclusion that, like Mr. Geisler, I do not have enough faith to be as certain as these authors are about their convictions. They say they base their ideas on 'facts.' OK, fine, but a fact is simply where we have decided to suspend research...for the moment. Those 'facts' may and will soon change again. Best to keep an open mind. A fundamentalist is a fundamentalist.

Paul Tillich wrote, "When anything is placed on a pedestal beyond criticism, it becomes an idol. Those who thus seek to screen an idol from criticism only betray their own suspicions about the worthiness of the totem they worship."

Let both religionists and anti-religionists heed Mr. Tillich's words.

Can You Really Change for the Better? Oh, Yes...

2011-09-02T09:00:00.000-07:00

Change is in the air...

"They" tell you to be open to change, that if you really want to grow, to prosper, to realize your full potential, you must embrace change. Maybe. But Fritz Perls said something interesting if not profound that I will share with you here for your consideration:

"Changes are taking place by themselves. If you go deeper into what you are, if you accept what is there, then a change automatically occurs by itself. This is the paradox of change."

Relax. You're changing as you read, as you walk, as you move, even as you sleep. You no longer need to take courses or classes or seminars that say "they'll" teach you how to change. You're an expert already.

A bonus from Dr. Perls:

"If you take responsibility for what you're doing to yourself--how you produce your symptoms, illness, existence--the very moment you get in touch with yourself, growth begins, integration begins."

The Humble Potato--Is It Killing You?

2011-08-31T09:40:00.000-07:00

I have researched the potato for at least five years and just when I think I have found the definitive answer concerning its healthy or unhealthy properties, I find new evidence that refutes everything that has gone before.

However, I found this bit of info that suits my tastes so I've decided to make it the final arbiter in my ongoing tumble with the humble potato. Click on the link to follow, read it, decide for yourself, and keep enjoying your spuds! They will not kill you.

Resistant Starch

Make mine baked, with a touch of sour cream and garlic.

Spirituality in a Nutshell - Your Glimpse of Reality

2011-08-29T20:17:00.000-07:00

St. Francis of Assisi said it best:

"It's no use walking anywhere to preach unless our walking is our preaching."

Every moment is a spiritual moment. You will never be more spiritual than you are right now. Rejoice in that. Your search is over...

The Guest House - Rumi, 13th Century Poet

2011-08-28T10:38:00.000-07:00

"This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival--
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
Some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor--
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,
Who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture,
Still treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out for some new delight--
The dark thoughts, the shame, the malice,
Meet them at the door laughing,
And invite them in--
Be grateful for whoever comes,
Because each has been sent as a guide from Beyond."

In short, don't take yourself so seriously. Love and accept everything that you are. Be your own best friend. Some of the toughest work you'll ever do; and it's worth it.

What You Fear Most: A Spiritual Jab to the Heart

2011-08-24T19:51:00.000-07:00

When I was a child, I was afraid of the dark. But when I grew up, I, like St. Paul, put away childish things. Or at least I thought I did. What I discovered on my way to 'adulthood' was that I had put on the habit of fear so tightly, it had become as an old friend, watching out for me, keeping me safe, saying, "There, there. You don't have to do anything. I will will keep you safe and hidden." I got tired of that. But like my cigarettes, it was a hard habit to break.

I got rid of the cigarettes. Fear has taken a bit longer.

Turns out, the real challenge is not in being afraid of the dark, but of the light. Everything shows up in the light; all the spots and wrinkles and warts. All the stuff that was easily hidden in the dark. Turning on the light can make me very vulnerable indeed. No thanks, most say. But not me.

I have chosen to step into the light. It doesn't make me holy or enlightened or a guru. It makes me small; it humbles me; it reveals me. And at times, I turn away from the light. There is so much to be revealed that I have chosen to avoid for many years.

Still, I am curious. What is really hidden down there in those dark recesses of mind, heart, and habit? Let's look...

Ah, regret. And worry. Oh, and a sense of rejection. A little, maybe a lot, of self hatred. And more self pity than I can get my mind around. Some anger, unforgiveness, judgment, a little prejudice. Some nasty scars from childhood and even later. A few lies I've told, a cheat here and there.

My stuff shows itself in the light. In all its raging color, its shock, its reality, its bumpiness.

No wonder most people don't let their light shine. It reveals too much. It opens them up to ridicule, to more rejection. And that's just from themselves. No telling how all that revelation will affect the others in my life, eh? Nope, can't--won't--do it, they say. I'm safe...here in the dark.

In spite of myself, I will step into that light. I will face it all. I have to. No one can face it for me. And something tells me I will be better for it in the long run, if I just step into the light.

And yet, the darkness hides me. It's rather comfy here. Maybe I'll wait a little longer.

I'm too frightening to face right now.

The Three L's to Living Well: It Doesn't Get Simpler Than This!

2011-08-22T23:56:00.000-07:00

Learn with gusto.
Link with discretion.
Laugh at yourself more.

"The best way to know what you want is to simply look at what you have."
Richard Kent Matthews

So, What's Stopping You? - The Real Path to Spiritual Awakening

2011-08-19T00:07:00.000-07:00

You seek, you pray, you reach out to God. You do all the things spiritual types do and are supposed to do. Except for one thing...

"Why aren't you dancing with joy at this very moment? This is the only relevant spiritual question." Pirvilayet Khan (Sufi seer)

Before you start with the excuses and the complaints and the whining about why your life is not filled utterly with joy, remember this major secret:

If you really want to be happy, be happy!

The greatest block to your joy, your success, your spiritual awakening is self-pity. Period.

Lights Out: The Radical Right, the Tea Party, and the 21st Century Dark Age*

2011-08-14T09:24:00.000-07:00

Emperor Theodosius made Christianity the sole and official religion of the Roman State in A.D. 395. The Church assumed complete control over individual minds and humanity entered the 1000-year period called the Dark Ages. In fact, the first 400 of those years are considered Europe's Barren Age, with few advances in literature, science, and education. Thankfully, the structure began to crack during the 16th Century and has lost most of the stranglehold, though gradually, ever since.

If the Radical Right religious factions and their corporate supporters in the U.S. are allowed to establish not only their conservative but malicious agenda, we could see a return to a kind of dark age. All one has to do is look at the radical Islamist regimes throughout the world who still hold complete control of their various nations to know that we must not let that happen in America.

Theocracy is the death knell of a free society.

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances.
- The Bill of Rights

*Click on title of this article to be redirected to Americans United for the Separation of Church and State.

What Does It REALLY Take To Be Happy? Insights From Zappos

2011-08-11T15:05:00.000-07:00

Stolen (per her permission) from Jocelyn Harmon's blog, Marketing for Nonprofits*:

Tony Hsieh of Zappos fame, has shared some great information about the psychology of happiness in his newish book - Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion and Purpose. You should read it!

This online shoe store turned consumer goods marketplace, which "got married" to Amazon in 2009, has been lauded for it's exceptional customer service and employee relations programs.

While there are MANY differences between selling Nike sneakers and selling social change, a lot of Tony's ideas about how to create high-performing and HAPPY teams are applicable to nonprofits.

Here are the highlights.  Steal away!

According to Tony, people need 4 things to be happy.

1. Control - People need to have a sense of authority over their work. What this means for you. Set clear guidelines for what needs to get done, why and when and then get out of the way!

2. Progress - People need to feel like they are moving the needle. What this means for you. Do quarterly instead of annual reviews, be curious about and responsive to your employee's dreams.

3. Connectedness - According to Tony, "studies have shown that engaged employees are more productive and that the number of good friends an employee has at work is correlated with how engaged that employee is." What this means for you. In addition, to ensuring that new hires have the right skills for the job, ensure that they are the right culture fit! Also, create opportunities for your employees to connect inside and outside of work.

4. Meaning - People are motivated to create MEANING in the world. You already know this, but once their basic needs are met, "humans are more motivated by other non-materialistic needs such as social status, achievement, and creativity." What this means for you. Keep the VISION of your organization front and center for you and everyone else. While achieving fundraising goals, recruiting new supporters and getting covered in The Times is great, in the end of the day, most of us are motivated by making REAL CHANGE in the world. Don't forget to make meaning!

Cheers!

Jocelyn

*Click on the title of this post to view Jocelyn's blog.

You've Wanted to Know: Where Do Evil Spirits Come From? (An Open Question to the Western Religions)

2011-08-07T10:05:00.001-07:00

You may well be surprised!

So, you have been led to believe that evil spirits come from the devil. Guess again. They come directly from the Jewish/Christian/Muslim god himself. Let's check out the Old Testament:

JUDGES: God sends an evil spirit between Abimelech and the men of Shechem;
1 SAMUEL: God sends an evil spirit to Saul so that he has a mental breakdown;
1 SAMUEL: God makes the evil spirit leave Saul after David plays his harp;
1 SAMUEL: God sends another evil spirit to Saul, causing him to prophesy;
1 SAMUEL: God’s evil spirit hangs out with Saul while he has a javelin in his hand and David plays with his hand;
1 KINGS: God sends lying spirits to prophets so that they speak evil; and
2 CHRONICLES: God sends lying spirits to prophets so that they speak evil.

You just can't make this kind of stuff up. No matter how you slice it, evil is a creation of the Biblical god. And that includes the creation of the devil himself, who, by the way, was God's right hand man for much of the time. (Read the story of Job...)

Now, you can continue to believe that evil is a separate force from good. But, as you can see from the above set of scriptural passages, the so-called good god of the Bible is the very one who brought evil into existence.

Before you think I am actually being critical here, understand this: Good cannot exist without evil, and vice versa. They complement each other. You can only recognize good because evil exists. Nothing more, nothing less. You are as blind in all light as you are in all dark. The contrast is essential for survival itself.

The universe is created in a way that brings all opposites into play. Light vs. dark; up vs. down; in vs. out. You get the picture. Good and evil are no different. One needs the other. God needs the devil, at least in the minds of those who think God is distinct and separate from the rest of the Cosmos.

In the final analysis, evil is actually a blessing. It is the only way you can see the good. More important, it's the only way you can learn to PRACTICE the good. You are the final arbiter. You must make the choice. If evil flourishes in the world, it isn't because of the devil. It's because of you.

"You must be the change you would see in the world." Gandhi

Why the World Is Wicked--or--Have We Been Set Up?

2011-08-02T11:36:00.001-07:00

"Trying to make people moral lays the groundwork for vice." Tao Te Ching

Take Levitical Law, Sharia Law, and the proclamations of Krishna, St. Paul, and the Buddha, make one big long list and then begin reading. You'll find that every single aspect of human life, both individually and collectively, is covered by some kind of moral injunction. With all that legalism, how can we expect not to break a rule now and then? We can't even move from room to room without the Legal Eagle of religion and moral certitude breathing down our necks. How, then, can we ever be truly free? Perhaps we shouldn't be. Maybe we should just resign ourselves to the idea that we are too corrupt and corruptible to be left to our own devices. After all, sin, karma, damnation, punishment from on high all lurk in the background, ready to bring us to our knees if we take one bit of delight in this life, in this experience. We must be a despicable creature, indeed.

What to do....

Again, the Tao Te Ching: "Open yourself first to Spirit, then trust your natural responses. Everything will fall into place." Really? That's not what your priest, minister, rabbi, or mullah will tell you. In fact, just the idea of trusting your natural responses puts you on the road to perdition. So, what's next?

I like what Thom Cavalli in Alchemical Psychology (1992) writes: "If you are not master of your own mind, you will be a slave to the minds of others." Good call, Thom. Now what?

Ready? OK, this may come as a surprise and will fly in the face of all your moralist leanings:

Become fully self-centered. You'll awaken to your robot actions.
Meet your own needs first. You'll be in a better position to be of assistance when needed.
Develop a very friendly relationship with yourself. Otherwise, you tend to become your own worst enemy.

Think that's easy? Ha! Not a chance. You're already fidgeting and seeing the Dark Side of it all. Well, stay the way you are, then. Be a door mat, or someone's pawn, or whatever role you've been playing up until now. Blame your childhood, or bad teachers, or whatever little traps you have allowed yourself to fall into. But remember, the longer you are unhealthy in mind and spirit, the less you will be able to be a worthy player in this game of life. And you remain unhealthy as long as you allow others to pull your strings.

Interestingly enough, the healthier you become in mind and spirit, the more valuable you are to your community. As St. Irenaeus said, "The glory of God is a human fully alive."

Freedom, then, is appreciating yourself fully.

"Decide to love and do as you will." St. Augustine

Cloy and Cyndi

2011-07-30T19:34:00.000-07:00

A beautiful couple, a beautiful day, a lovely wedding. One of the 'duties' of ministry I enjoy the most. Taken near the Columbia River Gorge, Oregon, in May of 2011.

What It REALLY Takes to Succeed...

2011-07-26T11:43:00.000-07:00

"You are the same today as you'll be in five years except for two things: The books you read and the people you meet." Charlie "Tremendous" Jones (National Speaker's Association Hall of Fame)

What you don't know CAN hurt you...

Whether it's the book store, the library, your Kindle/iPad2/Nook, or your local coffee shop, the information you seek on any subject is readily and easily available. Get it, learn it. Stretch your comfort zone and reach for the literal and proverbial stars. Your success is only limited by your refusal to grow and to take a bit of risk now and then.

Get out into the world. Meet new people. Create new challenges. Don't slip into lethargy. You've been just a bit lazy, haven't you?

No more excuses. It's all waiting for you...

"Everything you want is just outside your comfort zone." Robert Allen

Is Your Bible the Right Bible? How Do You Know? (A New Thought Inquiry)

2011-07-22T22:41:00.000-07:00

"How well we know what a profitable superstition this fable of Christ has been for us." Pope Leo X (1513-1521)

Just a short but potent post today for all you New Thought bible fans and those who are simply curious...

The Sinai Bible is the oldest Bible in the world and when compared with modern-day versions, a staggering 14,800 differences can be found. That means the next time someone tells you the Bible is the literal Word of God, you might share with them this bit of information.

Now you know.

"Our blind faith in (Biblical) literalism is killing Christianity. Only with a return to an inclusive religion where Christ lives within each of us will we gain a true understanding of who we are and who we are intended to become." Tom Harper, The Pagan Christ (2004)

Your Growth Factor: How You Actually Become What You Are (New Thought)

2011-07-14T22:11:00.000-07:00

Forcing change, denying change... It matters not. You're changing anyway.

"Chaos often breeds life, when order breeds habit." Henry Adams
In the long run, you're no safer seeking security than in taking calculated risks. And risk brings a lot more reward.

"Sanity is a madness put to good use." George Santayana
We are all mad, dysfunctional, and heading in the wrong direction. And that's the GOOD news! You're not alone.

"Growth demands a temporary surrender of security." Gail Sheehy
A step outside the comfort zone now and then will shake you up, but you'll be the better for it.

"When it's dark enough, you can see the stars." Ralph Waldo Emerson
You need both the dark and the light. You're blind in either, when they're total.

So, you grow by taking risks, stepping out of your comfort zone, and embracing your own darkness. And, ultimately, as Maxwell Maltz said, "Our self-image and our habits tend to go together. Change one and you will automatically change the other."

Playing small, giving in to your cowardice, keeps you chained. But by deciding to take different actions, you will change your results and those changed results will change your beliefs, which will change your future decisions, which change your actions, and voila! New results. And, most important, new habits.

That's how you grow.

New Thought Music: (I Will Sing) A Happy Tune - Richard Kent Matthews

2011-07-10T16:07:00.000-07:00

New Thought music to get you up, ready, and going into your joy-filled day! Sing it with me every morning and be uplifted... (Lyrics below)

(I Will Sing) A Happy Tune

By Richard Kent Matthews

I will sing a happy tune today - for I know God’s love is shining…

I will sing a happy tune to day - God’s love is shining on me.

I will sing a happy tune today - for I know God’s love is living…

I will sing a happy tune today - God’s love is living in me.

Everywhere I go - God’s music is so sweet…

It’s in my head and heart…

It’s in my hands and feet!

I will sing a happy tune today for I know God’s love is alighting…

I will sing a happy tune today - God’s love is alighting on me.

How to Survive Your Own Conception, Part 3 - A New Thought Video Blog

2011-07-07T09:59:00.000-07:00

See Parts 1 and 2 below or in archive...

How to Survive Your Own Conception, Part 2 - A New Thought Video Blog

2011-07-06T18:30:00.000-07:00

See Part 1 below...

How to Survive Your Own Conception - A New Thought Video Blog

2011-07-05T10:20:00.001-07:00

Do You Believe in God? Really? Then How Are You Living? (New Thought)

2011-07-03T10:17:00.000-07:00

"He who does not love does not know God; for God is love." 1 John 4:8

I was listening to a TV televangelist this morning who said, paraphrased, "If you love your country, Christian, you'll do everything in your power to stomp out this horrible, evil disease called 'gay marriage.' It will be the same as attacking Satan himself. God requires this of you. If you remain silent, you are as good as participating in the sin. And it's our biggest challenge in this present age. Don't mess with God. His wrath will be pored out upon you just like it will be to those who mock him, both in the press and in the halls of state houses around the country."

It would be interesting to find out how many people who heard him believed him and will take up the banner of fear and hatred against the LGBT communities around the U.S. It hearkens back to the 1960s when, as a teenager, I used to hear ministers of every stripe--not just Southern ones--spewing messages of hatred against those who would give Black Americans equal rights. They said that it would be the downfall of America as we know it, that the Bible supported separation of the races, that Blacks were not intellectually equal to Whites, that interracial marriage should remain illegal, that White kids and Black kids should go to separate schools, and on and on. Well, as we have seen, the Civil Rights Act of 1964 did not cause the downfall of the Union; if anything, it helped to solidify it even more.

And you women must once again be reminded that both the political and Christian mindset of the early 20th century declared that you were too emotional to vote with any intelligence or wisdom. You didn't get that right until August of 1920. And some still think the decision was a mistake, including not a few Christian women!

So, if you call yourself Christian, please pay heed to the Bible quote that opened this short article. Jesus, who lived during a very tough time in world history, had the Roman Empire as well as the Jewish authorities, breathing down his neck, was accused of heresy, treason, and anarchy against the State. Still, he said that the greatest law included loving neighbor as self. He stood by that proclamation even as he was led away to be executed on a Roman cross. His final words? Forgive them...

We are called to love. Simple. Clear. Unambiguous. Oh, we can justify ourselves for doing otherwise; we continually do. But in the long run, only love will satisfy. Only love will soothe. Only love will heal.

Take up a new banner, Christian--and any who would practice hatred against their fellows. Let it be love for all of your brothers and sisters, no matter the religion, the philosophy, the orientation, the nationality, the political persuasion. If God requires anything of you, it must be this: Love one another, even as I have loved you.

The Answer is simple. The decision to put love into practice is, as always, up to you.

The Real Secret to Manifesting Your Desires (New Thought Sunday Message, 7/3/11)

2011-06-27T22:32:00.000-07:00

So, you really want to know how to get what you want, how to be what you want, how to do what you want? Really? Honestly? No kidding? Well, first, a question: Are you willing to do whatever it takes? If you already have started making excuses like, "I won't do anything illegal," or "I've got my family to think about," or "You mean, like, jumping off a cliff or something?" then you've already chopped yourself off at the knees. In order to get, do, and be what you want, you must be willing to do what it takes. You must move. You must practice, practice, practice.

It's said that it takes around 21 days to change a habit. So, here's your formula for getting everything you want. Follow this and success is guaranteed. Don't follow it, and it isn't. It's that simple. OK, here we go. Hold onto your hat. You're in for a fun but bumpy ride.

Decide what it is you want. Be clear, be certain, be honest. Take a little time. Think about it. Got it? OK, next...
Hold a clear picture of it. The better you can see it in your mind's eye, the easier it will be to recognize it when it shows up. While seeing it, talk to yourself about it and...
Create a mantra for it. Some call this an affirmation, and I guess it can be that, but it's actually a call to action. Here's how to create it: Pick two or three words that grab the essence of your picture and repeat it many times during the course of the day. Example: You want to be a great painter. Say "The world loves my art."
Do the work. This is where many people falter. They are not willing to do what it takes to achieve their aim. If you want to be a concert pianist, you must practice every day. If you want to be a marathon champion, you must run every day. If you want to learn a new language, you must speak it every day. In other words, you must do the work daily. Decide what needs to be done and do it. Don't fall into the procrastination habit. That's a killer.
Reap the benefit. Here's the fun part. From the first moment of commitment, you'll begin to notice benefits. Enjoy them all along the way. Don't just wait for some big payoff at the end. Otherwise, you'll get bored and probably give up. The little successes along the way will keep you motivated. And they'll keep you younger and happier, too.

Got it? No excuses. No whining. This is the formula that always works. You can read or hear or watch all kinds of gurus and self help teachers and motivational speakers and they will all be telling you the same thing. So, save yourself the book price, the seminar fee, the workshop payment. You don't have to look any further. This is it. Your trip plan. Your path. Your answer.

If it all seems too simple, just wait until you commit to it. That is, IF you commit to it. Once you commit, two things will happen. First, all kinds of opportunities will begin to show up in your life to assist you. Second, all kinds of obstacles will show up in your life to block you. They are both essential. Your job is to work the opportunities and face the obstacles. But, if you're truly committed, determined, and resolute, you will achieve your outcome. Then, start over, do it again, make it a game.

Aristotle said, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." Make this formula a way of life, a habit, and watch how the universe will literally roll at your feet in ecstasy. You'll think it's all a miracle. In reality, it is the natural way of things.

Now you know. Have fun.

Are You Living "The Good Life"? (New Thoughts)

2011-06-24T09:15:00.000-07:00

"The good life is when you wake up in the morning

and can't wait to start all over again."

Barbara Sher

You can have all the material wealth in the world. You can live in the best neighborhood in the best city in the best country. You can have a great family, good friends, and slammin' career.

But...

If you struggle to get out of bed in the morning, ache at the thought of going to work, or rolling over and seeing the same old face staring back at you--and not smiling--from the other side of the bed, you may not be living as good a life as you thought you'd be living by this time in your experience.

Trouble is, it has nothing to do with family or friends or career or money or neighborhood. It's you. It's always you. It has never been anyone or anything else but you. And you have a simple way of changing anything you want to change. How?

"There is no one luckier than one who thinks himself so." German proverb
"We do not see things as they are; we see things as we are." The Jewish Talmud
"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become." The Buddha
"As we think in our heart, so we are." Prov. 23:7
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live; it is expecting others to live as one wishes to live." Oscar Wilde

The point is to recognize that you have the power to change whatever you want to change. And if you don't do it, it won't get done. First step? Stop justifying all the ways you can't change.

Finally, remember this: The only true wealth you have is time, and that is running out as you read this. Use that time wisely; live that time with as much joy and enthusiasm as you can. Your world will change and all within it will seem to change as well.

"If there is a sin against life, it consists...in hoping for another life

and in eluding the implacable grandeur of this life."

Albert Camus

How To Be Trustworthy for Fun and Profit (New Thought Message, 6/26/11)

2011-06-20T18:21:00.001-07:00

To be trustworthy is the essence of success...

You have a lot of people in your life--family, friends, colleagues. Most of them do not trust you 100%. Surprised? Don't be. Few of us are so trustworthy that everyone in our life would tell it to the world. So, with that in mind, a short and to the point way to become as trustworthy as is humanly possible. The reward? Your own personal fulfillment. That's right. The more trustworthy you are, the more you will trust the universe and the more you trust the universe, the more it will show its gifts to you. Good stuff, eh? Let's see, now, how you fare.

The Three Keepers of Trust...

Imagine a scale from 0 to 100. For each of these keepers, give yourself a number on the scale to see where you stand. Be honest. No one will know but you. And it matters a lot.

Keep your promise, your commitment, your word. You will often find justification for breaking your promises. Even when others say they understand, your trustworthiness has just dropped. You're a little late, you forget the date, you miss an anniversary. Do your utmost to quit finding justification. The best way? Don't break your word.
Keep your heart and mind open. This can be tough, especially if someone close to you shares something with you that makes you nervous, goes against your values, is perhaps illegal. How do you handle it? Let all you know that you will not go against your own values. Still, remain open. People need to feel they can talk to you. Can they?
Keep your mouth shut. How often do you talk about other people when they are not present? Every day? Probably. Can you stop that? Not easily. Are you willing? That's your call. Gossip and sharing the secrets of others is the quickest way to lose the trust of those around you.

Simple, but not easy. And it's important to remember that this is a journey rather than a destination. Almost no one will ever score an even 300 on this little scale. But wherever you find yourself, you can always do better.

Again, as you become more trustworthy, you find yourself in a trustworthy universe. You will see more of what seem to be miracles. You will receive gifts, advantages, ideas that you wouldn't even notice as a distrusting person.

Ah, distrust. Along with self-pity, distrust is right up there as a major block to your spiritual awareness and awakening. Learning to be, and practicing to be, more trustworthy allows your heart and spirit to recognize just how wonderful your life is, your relationships are, and that you live a grand world.

Success on every level is guaranteed.

Trust me.

Your Tongue, Your Talk, Your Life--A Short and Powerful Reminder (New Thought)

2011-06-17T07:46:00.000-07:00

"Death and life are in the power of the tongue." Prov. 18:21

What is the voice in your head saying to you right now, in this moment? Whatever it is, it reflects your inner truth. And, your inner truth is mostly the result of what you have been telling yourself all of your life. You have been responding to circumstances, environments, and the voices of those around you. You have copied the words that have been thrown at you and have made them your own.

You have talked yourself into your life. What will you say next?

Warning to Women: Your Reproductive Rights on the Chopping Block (New Thought Sunday Message 6/12/11)

2011-06-10T20:06:00.001-07:00

Pablo Picasso said, "There are only two kinds of women--goddesses and doormats." Which one are you?

Republican-run state governments around the country are acting as quickly as they can to clamp down on your right to choose, not only abortion in the case of rape or incest, but also contraception. That's right. These fuddy-duddy legislators--many of them also women--do not want you to have the rights that are guaranteed to you by the U.S. Constitution. Roe vs. Wade is under fire and states are finding ways to circumvent that 1970s amendment through various deceptive means. And they, apparently, will stop at nothing.

Republicans are the first to yell and scream and march against Big Government; yet, they want to interfere with your most basic and private choices: Pregnancy and your relationship with your doctor.

You do have a voice. Contact your representative and/or senator, both state- and federal-level, to let them know that you demand your rights and that you want them to make certain that women are not shuttled backward to the 19th century. Don't wait. The Republicans know that they may once again lose the various state houses and Congress again next year. They want to push all this damning legislation through before that happens.

Your liberties on every level--and mine, too--are at stake.

For more information, contact the National Association for Women at http://www.now.org/issues/abortion/

How You View the World is Who You Are (A very short New Thought)

2011-06-05T11:11:00.000-07:00

Share Your Heart/Mind/Spirit

Ralph Waldo Emerson put it this way:

"People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of their character."

Do you hear folks complaining about all the challenges around them, or how rotten the world is, or how evil people, politicians, clergy, CEOs (PickYourOwnHere) are and how they are bringing everything down? Maybe it's you doing the bitching?

It's so easy to tear down. The question is, what are you doing to build up? To be certain, you cannot fix a problem until the problem is acknowledged. But complaining while remaining in your personal comfort zone is certainly not the best way to help change happen.

Three quick ways to be part of the solution:

Look for ways to help
Look for ways to serve
Look for ways to soothe

Simple enough?

How to Judge by Appearances...and Do It Well! (New Thought message 6/5/11)

2011-06-01T13:02:00.000-07:00

Is it healthy to judge by appearances? You bet it is!

As a New Thought teacher, practitioner and devotee, I am always looking for interesting quotes and anecdotes to share with those I teach. One of my favorites comes from Oscar Wilde. I like Wilde because he often flies in the face of conventional wisdom. And he does it with flair and confidence, not just sarcasm and indifference. These particular words of his may shock or unsettle you for any number of reasons, but let them sink in a bit deeper than the surface. They are keen words from a keen mind. I'll be back after you read them to make a final comment or two:

"It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances. The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible." (From The Picture of Dorian Gray)

What I believe Wilde is saying here is that we often take our everyday world for granted. Look at the tree. Look at the flower. It's not that they are there in front of you; it's that you can see them, experience them at all. Your eye, an extension of the brain, is flooded with the light that has reflected off the branches or the petals and you have in some mysterious way turned that light into picture. You 'see' the tree and the flower. How can the absolute mystery of that not stun you? And it goes for everything else in this world, in this universe. Why is there something instead of nothing? You do not know. Nor do I.

So then, why do we spiritual types concern ourselves so much with the ethereal when the real mystery is where we stand right now in this moment? Why do we seek a nirvana or a heaven when all that can possibly be given us has been given us? Why? Because we allow our childish self-seeking to convince us that this is a chaotic, rough, mean, and perhaps evil place that needs to be (God forbid!) transcended.

You stand on holy ground, in the midst of the Great Mystery, a mystery that shows itself to you in every moment. It is not hiding, waiting for you to seek it out. Rather, it displays itself openly, willingly, in all its majesty, its grandeur, its beauty, right here and right now. In its flora, its fauna, its soil, its water, its air. And in its creatures. You need only look. And listen. And wonder!

Judge, then, by appearances. For what you seek is already visible.

How to (Finally!) Deal with Stress (New Thought Sunday Message 5/28/11)

2011-05-27T16:27:00.001-07:00

Short and sweet: Ending stress

If you live in the US in 2011, you probably feel you carry a lot of stress. In fact, virtually every form of media will support you in your self-assertions. But, here's the truth. Read it. Read it again. Accept it. Move on. Ready?

"There is a word for the absence of stress--DEATH." Hans Selye

Feeling a bit better? I thought so. Not to sell your stress short, just keeping it in perspective.

You Want the Truth? I'll Give You the Truth! (New Thought Message week of May 23, 2011)

2011-05-22T23:12:00.000-07:00

I do not know who said this, but he or she is spot on.

"Experience is knowledge. Anything else is just information."

So, how shall I interpret that? Oh, yeah. Like this:

No matter how much your guru, minister, priest, rabbi, mullah, or saint tells you something, you will never really know it unless and until you experience it for yourself. And even then, keep a close watch. You have been known to trick yourself in the past. No need to doubt you will do it again. Still, you are your own best judge.

I went once to a particular part of my city to visit a landmark. I had been told that the person for whom the landmark had been erected had crossed many rivers and hiked many mountains to get to where I was standing. I thought it amazing. I lauded him for his efforts. Why, what a journey. He really had his work cut out for him. Then, my mind wandered, distracted by a bird flying rapidly by, heading out over the woods to my right. Wow. What a bird. Sort of blue, with purple-y patches somewhere on her undercarriage--she went by so fast, I wasn't certain exactly where they were located. Then, I left, went home, and until right now, sort of forgot about the landmark. I would be willing to bet that, up until his death, the person who provided the impetus for the landmark never forgot what he accomplished.

But he experienced it; I did not. For me, a great thought. For him, a great adventure. For me, information. For him, enlightenment.

Find your truth in experience. For you are the result of all of them. And no one will ever have your experiences. They will never be repeated. And they will leave an indelible mark upon the universe forever.

You're just that important. And that, my friend, is the truth.

Angels and Autism: A Special News Release

2011-05-20T16:34:00.000-07:00

For Immediate Release Contact: Alex Marcoux

May 19, 2011 303-697-5543

Autistic People: spiritual savants yearning to teach us about the human soul and mysteries of life

Phoenix, AZ – For years, scientists have tried to unlock the mystery of autism. Now, Wickenburg Arizona residents, Gayle B. Lee and her autistic daughter, Lyrica Mia Marquez offer new hope to autistic people, their parents and the world in their soon to be released award-winning book, “AWEtizm: A Hidden Key to Our Spiritual Magnificence.”

Lyrica was born without the ability to move or communicate with the outside world. A quick recommendation of institutionalization was followed by a diagnosis of autism. Gayle refused to give-up on her daughter. At the age of eight, using a supported typing process Lyrica writes, “I am not retarded, I am intelligent.” Suddenly, new doors opened for Gayle, allowing her to see inside her daughter’s autistic world.

Gayle not only realizes her daughter is intelligent, but she has mystical experiences and wisdom beyond our world. Eventually with the help of this distinctive typing method, Gayle discovers Lyrica’s experiences are not limited to her daughter, as other autistic people have similar occurrences. She even learns Lyrica and her autistic friends are actually communicating with each other on a telepathic level!

This week “AWEtizm” was nationally recognized as a 2011 Indie Excellence Book Award Winner. It is co-authored by Gayle and her daughter Lyrica and offers a unique and comprehensive perspective with unforgettable written contributions from three other autistic individuals, Leslie Rau, Kellen Hunt and Sara Orah – all confirming autistic people are here with a purpose. At the heart of their book is wisdom of the sages, offering readers a spark to their own spiritual magnificence.

Mother and daughter reside in Wickenburg AZ where they continue their work exploring new depths of autism discovering new hope to a misunderstood condition. Their new book will be officially released June 1.

For more information contact: Alex Marcoux at 303-697-5543 or email at: alex@m2pr.biz

To view the book trailer, click on the title in the first paragraph of this release.

A Practical Prayer... (New Thought Sunday Message, May 22, 2011)

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A New Thought Way to Pray...

Often, we think that to pray correctly, we must address or petition or even beg some outside source, hoping that in its benevolence, we may secure the answer or the object or the person we seek. Here is a prayer that has to go no further than your own lips. No one else need even hear it. If it comes up gently from the heart and down softly from the head, with grand and great and humble intention, the right answer is sure to follow:

May my words be gracious and tender today as they go forth into the world, for tomorrow, I may have to eat them.

Simple, to the point, world-changing.

Blessings to all and may all be fed.